hi ! I have a friend whom I have known 4 1 year plus and the
actions he did during the past few months made me ponder
as to whether he is really a true friend of mind .
For example, he will always ask me out 4 meals but when he reach e
place, he will always order expensive food and say he did nt bring
enuff cash and expect me 2 lend him. As a friend, I just lend him e
$$ but he will always forget to return what he owes me
and still has e guts to ask me 4 $$ each time we go out to eat
.
Moreover ,this friend say he treat me like brother
and even call me dunnoe wat ''darling brother'' on msn which i find
it very gay and uncomfortable. Although this guy will help me when
i have problem like giving suggestionsto solve the problem
, he will always ask me to treat him a meal in return .
I was like WTF as i thought true friends are suppose to help
each other without expecting anything in return and summore i lend
him $$ a lot of times . Can someone out here pls offer
me some suggestions on wat to do with this guy and tell me
whether this friend is juz making use of me ?
Hi montana,
It sounds like he is treating you as an ATM...
I will suggest that you either make things clear to him that you
are not his ATM, or stay away from him for good. In the latter
case, ignore all his calls and do not bother yourself with any of
his requests.
Cheers.