Some rich sgians saw a common ground with poor sgians, both of
them are at the mercy of the government and the market.
They may be rich, but they may not be able to move their
assets... or such...
What I suggest is to let her into your family for a trial
period, not as a maid of course, but like a live in girlfriend.
This may not be possible in certain families however but you need
to give an impression that you are INTELLIGENT, INSIGHTFUL,
PURPOSEFUL, instead of being egocentric and irresponsible
adult.
One strategy I used to woo my family to accept my gf is to tell
them beforehand that my gf meets my criteria (i.e. talks well,
not ugly, understanding of my financial situation, etc). And she
becomes my gf (I hint to them that my gf may not be a perm gf if it
fails my criteria), it is IMPERATIVE for everybody involve to
cooperate if the whole thing has to work.
Of course, I love my gf greatly, and I just lie all the criteria
based of my 'overpositive evaluations' toned down to realistic
levels.
