seems like there is not enough clarification here.
actually, the problem is that i can see that my brother is not
happy with his life now. and sometimes he may get depress over it,
and you know when people who are depressed, it is dangerous because
they might do something stupid.
but when he is okay liao, he will forget his
problem and live life as per normal. but the problem is not solved
and usually it returns another time because he is still overweight,
he hopes to find a girlfriend and he hopes to be able to save more
money.
these problems are the solution are usually
direct. eat healthily plus exercise, learn financial skills and
socialise more and be more confident. but sometimes things are
easier said than done. he just did not get these things. he is in
30s.
actually, there are always some people
in society who is just no luck and also do not have the discipline
to achieve the goals of life. because i am notgood at communicating
with people. i do not know how to really help him. He is as not a
avid learner , that is probably a reason why he cannot truly solve
them. He belongs to those type who mainly work and play or relax
and repeats the routine.
Hi january,
Is there anyone else in your family who is closer to him? You
can have him/her help to actually force your brother to take up a
exercise routine, and motivate him at the same time.
There is nothing he can do about saving more money, unless he is
willing to come up with a financial savings plan himself and keep
to it. As for getting a girlfriend, as some of us have suggested,
he may want to consider going to a dating session.
Cheers.
