After rejection by your potential girlfriend, how do you feel?
Did you ever feel like this rejection is only temporarily and
therefore you go and try after some time again? I heard this
happens but rarely successfully. Sometimes, after a rejection I
felt as though my whole man's ego has been crushed and wished I
could hide somewhere, man seriously how do I change this!?
Hi dracas,
You are linking the success of being accepted or rejected by a
girl too much to your own ego. It is normal for one to feel sadness
and the need to be alone when he or she is rejected, but to go to
the extent of thinking that you are not manly enough and you should
just hide somewhere just because you are rejected reflects an
unhealthy mindset.
The foremost thing which you can do is to change your mentality,
and gradually accept that being rejected is a very common thing.
You must understand that being accepted does not make you the king
of the world, and being rejected does not make you a worm
either.
Cheers.