From your observations of her, she seemed the typical flirty
girl. All she wants is just to have fun, to flirt and NOT to
entertain any serious sexual advances, even to the extend of under
influence of liqour.
She believes she can control such physical contacts, despite
probably many advices from parents and friends. But being young and
youthful, eager to try many things, her confidence or rather
over-confidence in her abilities had been over-rated, from her
performance.
All that had happened had shocked her to the core, badly
shakened her beliefs, and her present emotions is to deal with such
shattered beliefs of herself - with silence and better
understanding, to regain her confidence.
Time is a good healer, and perhaps thru this experience, she may
change into a more serious person. But if her confidence is high,
she will easily revert back to her flirty ways, and even more
determined to gain better control of herself, by testing the limits
of her liqour intake and sexual conduct.
The only thing from
absolutely shattering her into an all out surrender of her
confidence, turning herself into a cheap whore is that she was only
involve in some heavy petting and not a frightening drunk
stupored sexual intercourse which would happened if she had
been in new environment without close
friends.
This held her back, as
well as her sense of shame she would feel for being in
a toilet cubicle with you, witnessed by her friends,
worse if it was her very friends who had advised her not to be
too flirty for there would be consequences.
The way to help her deal with it is to explain to yours and her
friends honestly that nothing actually happened in the
cubicle. Let her regain her pride and confidence, and that you both
were drunk.
Reassure everytime possible, that you had no intentions for
petting. It was your first time handling liqour, and that it would
not happen again, no matter what happens.
And give her time to come to terms to deal with what happened.
Changes would be imminent. For better or worse, only she can
decide. All you can do is to give her moral support, encourage your
friends to give her that too, and treat the affair as an
experience, part of growing up, at least a lesser mistake than one
where worse could have happen.
Good luck.
the ones that i had highlighted
really scares me. I swear to u i really dont want her to be a
whore. Its something that i will cry if i saw her selling
herself.But i just kept on thinking how good it felt when i touch
her. there's nothing wrong right?
But i miss the old her. i really
like her being herself...she is so much fun with that personality.
Now its like a souless girl. And ya one of our friend hates me
because of this. Another addition to my stress.
And thanks fro the help. I guess all i can do now is just be
patience and hope she will be back to normal, i hope.
