recently i came across this thread in another forum called 'PCC
material" or something like that and when i opened the thread, i
was so shocked to see pictures of many good looking women. What
shocked me more was the content and comments by the people. after
reading them, i went to do some research on such behaviour and
found out two cold theories
"men tend to PCC about other women even when in
a rs or when they like someone"
"Men sometimes think of doing some other women when doing their
girl"
are majority of men like that?
But its like the thought of ppl pccing about some random chick
or better looking person just really like terrible fir few
reasons
1. I will feel like a substitute, he couldn't get her so he
settled for me
2. its like sharing that attraction with someone else
3. its bad for self-esteem because you feel like you cannot
'measure up' so he has to do that.
hiaz, someone please help me
u think u are the only one that feels subsituted meh.........i
also have a gf that when one time we went to sentosa went gaga over
one japanese guy (he is handsome) so no doubt abt it.....keep
looking at him while i hug her ard the waist....
watever lor too bad i not handsome or tall i just got a pleasant
character..so she settled down for me only in this sense...haiz do
you think everyone can be first choice meh...like that how nice the
world can be, no devaluing of humans liao.
also i got ask her when she graduate what she wanted to do, she
said that she would depend on me.
this again means that she is with me maybe 30% or 40% is because
......of material needs.
so u think la....i feel good meh when i though about
this.....but not all can be number one...someone needs to be the
benchwarmer
