I'm really sad ):

last SG · 2009-11-02T16:59:41+00:00

wow! art and dnt? that's alot of work to be done, rather than writing on pieces of paper. I take POA as 'elective'. Ha!

Swiftwinds95 SG

Today was the meet-the-parents session. The dad that i always loved, screamed at me, scolded me using harsh words, he said i will be a failure in life, just because i didn't attend my cca. The problem is my sis got D7 for her cca, yet my father said nothing. I'm really sad that the dad that i always loved and always cared for me, is no longer there. It's not like i failed my exams, i got 6 As, i'm in the top 40, yet he still screams at me over cca. He's not giving me any rewards, i can go out, but no pocket money. He said if i continue like this, he will not let me study anymore. This is fucked up, i regretted studying hard for my exams. It's not like i failed my exams, shoplifted, or i did any crime, it's just a bloody cca. I cried for so long, i feel so sad, i don't love my father anymore. Dad, i hate you ):

Midlusionz SG

Got so serious anot?

I failed my CCA + subjects.. Isnt that worst?

»¤ Liquified ¤« ... SG

swiftwinds.......why do you hate your dad just becus he treats you with more importance than your sister? excuse me, a D7 is bad, but getting nothing at all is even worst, not even trying to attend the cca is worst than getting a D7, if you did get a worst grade than your sister, your dad wont be any more angrier to you than if you didn't even have the guts to attend the cca.

nowadays, its all about school rankings and grade marks, when is any kid going to realize for themselves its not all about the ranks and grades, its about your effort, EFFORT is the most important attribute in your life, not just getting a top grade, going to work, getting thru work, going home to sleep and return to the continued cycle..

i think your dad really cares of you, do you know how my dad treats me? i never get any form of praise or scoldings at all, sometimes i do things so that my parents would scold me...you should be happy that you got a dad who cares not just about your grades and rubbish rankings(rankings are stupid demoralizing tools) but also about how you grow up.

simply elmo SG

yes! same here! i think your dad that cares for you!

if you can't stand the way he treated you...maybe...you can send a text to him...telling that your sorry...and will attend your cca!and you dislike being treated that way!

and...tell that you love himm...

maybe...he will consider your apology! trust me...it works...i tried that before

Forbiddensinner SG

To say something such as you will fail for life has shown that your father didn't actually think through before blurting what he said out.

Just let him be, maybe something bad happen recently and he is unable to handle the stress, and you end up being a "chu qi tong" for him.

dkcx SG

U go to school not only for academic but also for character development etc etc which is where cca comes in. There is no excuse for you to have skip ur cca for whatever reasons since all the ccas would have ended their activities before the exams.

A fail in cca should mean that you have been skipping all the training/activities all year long. This besides laziness, what other excuses do you have for it and for that, i'm not surprised your dad is angry.

Furthermore, if you had lied about attending cca to ur family and use that excuse to do other things that they might not have approved of, that would be something as good as committing a crime.

Forbiddensinner SG

To add on, do remember you are not studying hard for your father, you are studying hard for your future. If you stop working hard now, you will regret in the future that you didn't work hard enough.

dragg SG

you study hard for your future, not to satisfy your father.

Swiftwinds95 SG

I feel that cca is a waste of time..

dragg SG

a lot of things in life are a waste of time.

but what to do?

we do what we have to do and move on.

Daisuke-kun SG

i still feel that it's unfair for ts to get scolding when he got himself 6 A's

Swiftwinds95 SG

Before getting the report book, my father still said that, $10 each for an A2, $15 for an A1. And now he said, even if you have 1 million As, i won't give you a single cent. See, words cannot be trusted ):

dragg SG

maybe your dad was in a bad mood.

wait a few days. who knows you might get a surprise.

Daisuke-kun SG

wtf, yeah, maybe he's in a bad mood.

if he doesn't still didn't do a thing, den i don't know what to say.

Swiftwinds95 SG

I chose the wrong CCA. I shouldn't even chose IT Club. I don't really have friends there. I'm scared. I'm afraid that i get mocked by the people there. If i had chose the another CCA, i would have attend every single week. And then my dad says : if you can't even attend iT Club, then what about those UG? I want to join NPCC, i liked it. But after i got kicked out, i lost my interest in CCAs. And my dad says, if i continue like this, he won't let me study anymore? What bullshit is this! How bad can CCA reflect on my choices for JC and poly?

Swiftwinds95 SG

ƒlame SG

Aiyo your results so well just get all A1 for O's then you don't even need your CCA points can go to the good JCs

Daisuke-kun SG

i say, ignore him for this few days.

being called a failure in life when you had your A's just because you didn't attend your CCA.

you have my sympathy.

Sgforum King SG

PMS!

Swiftwinds95 SG

Pre- menstrual syndrome? Yea, and i got 4 cca points for the first 2 years. i sis got 7 points for the 4 years. and obviously i would have get a D7 for cca if i just attend a little. But my sis just never gets nagged about this. Maybe just because she's in St.nicks and i'm in a neighbourhood school?