Can I trust this friend?

NeverSayGoodBye SG

.....got a good friend. From the outside he is perfect gentleman. When we're together he is nice and easy with me. The problems are he is the type who will not stop anything to get what he wants in a ruthless way. Especially at work, he can step on any one that stand in his way.

youyayu SG

like that called a perfect gentleman just because he is nice and easy with you?

halo..

stepping on anyone just to get to his motive sound so ungentleman already okay.

Fugazzi SG

The truth is that u lack trust in yourself, u are doubtful of what u are. If it is not him it could be anyone else, u would still feel the way u do.

Gentlemen ? it is a myth lar, no such person - it is a mere social 'facilitator', a persona, a mask, a projection! Why the appendage!

Babelfish SG

Is his name by any chance; Josef Stalin?

NeverSayGoodBye SG

like that called a perfect gentleman just because he is nice and easy with you?

halo..

stepping on anyone just to get to his motive sound so ungentleman already okay.

.....I stood by him when he got problems and broke ties with some of his buddies. Lately I came to know that he had get back in good terms with them again. Make me feels like a fool.

A person can be nice, that doesn't mean he is good? True?

fireng SG

You are guy or girl?

NeverSayGoodBye SG

The truth is that u lack trust in yourself, u are doubtful of what u are. If it is not him it could be anyone else, u would still feel the way u do.

Gentlemen ? it is a myth lar, no such person - it is a mere social 'facilitator', a persona, a mask, a projection! Why the appendage!

.....should you give up a good friend whereby you can't agreed with his charactors, in other words crash with your own principles?

NeverSayGoodBye SG

Is his name by any chance; Josef Stalin?

Josef Bebelfish

Fugazzi SG

Principles is your own trip - the other does not have to conform to what u are , he/she is free to be, rite/wrong is for the other to deal with.

If one cannot reconcile but feels that principles (one's) matter, walk away, gracefully and let the other be.

That is dignity. That is allowing another to be and yet one is not diminished by walking away

NeverSayGoodBye SG

Principles is your own trip - the other does not have to conform to what u are , he/she is free to be, rite/wrong is for the other to deal with.

If one cannot reconcile but feels that principles (one's) matter, walk away, gracefully and let the other be.

That is dignity. That is allowing another to be and yet one is not diminished by walking away

.....this is a very good answer, you hit me with the right spot. Frankly speaking, it is hard to walk away from a good friend who you think highly off in the beginning.

Hcxm SG

.....this is a very good answer, you hit me with the right spot. Frankly speaking, it is hard to walk away from a good friend who you think highly off in the beginning.

maybe he's playing with u

Fugazzi SG

u Say : highly off in the beginning

Well, all of us 'evolve' or 'regress' - as to whether it is moral, ethical or even rite/wrong is relative and subjective.

Hence, it would be better to understand and accept what comes as it is.

Of course, it presupposes the one in the situation/circumstance is working towards being self-fulfilled or is self-fulfilled. Otherwise, one comes away disappointed, feeling cheated or diminished.

SGporkz SG

.The problems are he is the type who will not stop anything to get what he wants in a ruthless way

what if 1 day he do that to u ?

TrueHeart SG

Hi NeverSayGoodBye,

It pains me to say this, but there is a limit to how much you could trust someone in the modern world, be it an acquaintance, a friend, or even a family member. Since you already know his true personality, then you should be more wary of him, and not trust him to the point where he can easily turn against you and destroy you. A little trust is good, but it is better to be safe than to be sorry.

Cheers.

pheeoner SG

trust your instincts maybe? his character in his workplace may crossover to your friendship with him someday, you'll never know.

mancha SG

Don't trust him, in fact don't trust anyone at work.

Before you do anything or say anything, THINK!

Cover your backside.