stressed by life!!!

lilacs220 SG

hi i am just really really stressed out lately hope somebody can give me some advice??

i just recovered frm a major illness last mth right before my prelims and i actually had to stay out of sch during the whole prelims!!i had to do the papers at hm and my grades were still damn bad. im now really stressed tad a lvls are like 3 wks ago and i feel i lost all my knowledge n wtv while i was sick. :(

and den studying at hm is really torturous bcos my dad wil be at hm and he will keep talkin loudly in hokkien. sumtymes he even talks t himself and i get vry irritated cos i am trying to get gd grades in exams but he doesnt even care whether i can study in peace anot. i told him b4 abt this but he like dont care and im getting quite pissed alr!!!

also i feel easily tired recently. i got dry eyes and it seems to be worsening. but i wanto catchup on sch work but its like everyth is going against me? what shld i do??

Fugazzi SG

Life is never perfect - it is just the way it is. Of course, all of us make mistakes, take tumbles here and there along the way.

The sickness is one thing - how u perceive it is another thing altogether. What is gone is gone. Feeling lousy, guilty is utter waste of time.

However, unlearn your previous 'ways' of thinking and habits - slowly and be patient about it. The sickness is one thing - how u perceive it is another thing altogether.

U can waste energy worrying , wondering or simply feel like a victim or u can use the same energy and understand and be a bit more focussed with what u are and do.

The wise one observes and learns from others' mistakes. The not-so-wise type learns from one's own mistakes.

The lift to 'success' is out of order and one has to take the staircase - one step at a time. There are no short-cuts - u reap what u sow!

wee_ws SG

hi i am just really really stressed out lately hope somebody can give me some advice??

also i feel easily tired recently. i got dry eyes and it seems to be worsening. but i wanto catchup on sch work but its like everyth is going against me? what shld i do??

Hi,

Fighting the odds is always going to leave you frustrated and tired.

Embracing the odds by opening the doors of your heart to them will help you to take things in your stride. The past is really gone, finished. The future is always uncertain. Now is the time you have and the present moment is the time where the future is made.

Do check with your school whether you could highlight to MOE and/or SEAB about your case. Consult all your teachers and see what they could do to help you catch up with all the revision. If you take H2 maths, you may wish to read two checklists I have prepared at:

http://weews.yolasite.com

and mug on some questions I have made guesses on, at:

http://www.sgforums.com/forums/2297/topics/374636

If you like, I could give you a complimentary copy of my H2 Maths Worked Solutions book :)

Thanks and good luck!

Cheers,
Wen Shih

2cansam SG

i pity you

mlmersrlosers SG

u can go to queit places to study. Home isnt the only choice.
And drink lotsa water. If the problem irritates u go see a doctor.

fireng SG

TS is guy or girl?

Kelvintong95 SG

sad..but some cases are unavoidable...my prayers are to you TS

TrueHeart SG

hi i am just really really stressed out lately hope somebody can give me some advice??

also i feel easily tired recently. i got dry eyes and it seems to be worsening. but i wanto catchup on sch work but its like everyth is going against me? what shld i do??

Hi lilac,

The 2 options which will be most plausible in your situation will be to either purchase some earplugs, or to move temporarily to a relative's place where there is someone to look after you.

As for your eyes, you can purchase some eye drops to use. It could be getting dry because your body is still recovering, thus the rate of water loss is very high.

Cheers.

MaNyZeR SG

I dont understand why people talk in hokkien must be so loud.. especially the older generations...

there is a fucker opp my block also talk damn loudly in the middle of the night in hokkien on the phone... always, cheebye cheebye, knn knn, lan jiao... damn fucking loud.

Those market aunties also.. also talk very loudly... and their tone fucking sharp as well... damn irritating.. and worst hokkien must always include some vulgarities then nice is it??

I am not hokkien bashing.. its just some minorities that ruin the whole language..

Anyway, TS can study in the library.. or go to the airport mac?? Dry eyes use eye drop..

angel3070 SG

Mother fucking chao chee bye lan jiao fucking PAP.

lilacs220 SG

thanks for e encouragement (: just that a lot of things clash and im panicking bcos of the a lvels 2 wks away.... im pretty much on self study alr and intense mugging...

i've tried plugging in to my ipod and turning on e volume but guess what i can still hear his voice! so im not sure earplugs will help? and i dont know why i shld be the one accomodating him by studying outside. we're family right? shouldn't he spare a thought for me and keep his voice down?? his attitude is quite irritating.

i dont hate my dad just that this is what i feel is a problem to me.

btw im female.

TrueHeart SG

thanks for e encouragement (: just that a lot of things clash and im panicking bcos of the a lvels 2 wks away.... im pretty much on self study alr and intense mugging...

i dont hate my dad just that this is what i feel is a problem to me.

btw im female.

Hi lilacs,

Indeed, your father should spare a thought for your studies. But if he is unwilling to think for you, then you will have no choice but to find somewhere conducive for learning, such as a library. As much as you will like to not accommodate his actions, he is still your father, thus there is nothing much you could do about that.

Cheers.