Indecisive Guys

Leeying SG

girls, do you prefer your boyfriend to be demanding and always controlling what types of clothes you wear and also be the one who decides where you two are having meals at or a decisive boyfriend who always gives in to you, giving you much freedom but always can't decide where you all are going / doing and end up you have to be the one cracking your brain to make the decision?

guys, do you restrict your girlfriend from wearing miniskirt, low-cut tops etc? are you the one who is always deiciding where do the both of you have meal at, or heading to during dates or do you tend to leave the decision to your girl.f?

limpper SG

hello

miniskirt, low cut tops. if she want to wear, then so be it, but it has nvr been my liking, because it attracts those ti ki peks. no bfs will like it one luh, other guys staring at own gf.

but if we're together with no ppl around, in a room etc, i would prefer she wear nothing

regarding decision making, depends on issue. if it's where to dine, she'll always have the first and final say, at least for my relationship luh, unless she dont know then i step in.

for other matters, she'll respect my decision, and i will respect hers, as long as it's reasonable.

but too bad, i no gf now

limpper SG

for me arh, anything that i dont like or dont wish her to do or wear always have a reason.

i wont want her not to do it just because i dont like it.

popikachu SG

hello

miniskirt, low cut tops. if she want to wear, then so be it, but it has nvr been my liking, because it attracts those ti ki peks. no bfs will like it one luh, other guys staring at own gf.

but if we're together with no ppl around, in a room etc, i would prefer she wear nothing

regarding decision making, depends on issue. if it's where to dine, she'll always have the first and final say, at least for my relationship luh, unless she dont know then i step in.

for other matters, she'll respect my decision, and i will respect hers, as long as it's reasonable.

but too bad, i no gf now

Who will like their girl being a eye candy to other guys?

TrueHeart SG

Hi Leeying,

I will prefer a guy who will make choices such as where to eat or go out for the both of us, but I will ask that he gives me the freedom of choice as to choose for myself what to wear and such. But then again, if my other half says that I look nice or beautiful in something, I will definitely try to wear that often when the two of us go out. I hope that this answers your question.

Cheers.

youyayu SG

Normally, i would decide where to have meal at, but if she does have craving then oh okay we will go to her ideal place.

Yes i do restrict if my gf would want to wear miniskirts or low cut..

but it will be depending on situation.

ShrodingersCat SG

I prefer a guy to be decisive over his OWN things

have and offer his opinions without just deciding on his own on things that affect the two of us, i.e. places to eat

but NO NEED to make my decisions FOR me. I mean, if a girl needs a guy to make decisions FOR her, then the assumption is the guy probably thinks she is either very helpless or very brainless.

If he disagree with my decision, then discuss it.

ItchyArmpit SG

i nv been to a relationship b4 :(

i wan to join in discussion :(

ItchyArmpit SG

but if i am a boyfriend of someone... i would be more concerned about how my girlfriend acts, the body language that she wants to "attract" other ppl attention and these all... what she wear is just one of the factor... most importantly is what she thinks, if she thinks that by wearing that, she will have more attention from OTHER ppl, then i will be very sad...

and i always tot deciding where to go and where to eat is discuss one? LOL... haha!!

mancha SG

Decide/choose what you want.

Be it cars, computers, handphones, PSP, or boyfriends.

If you just take what is doled out to you, then just live with it.

cApitaland SG

id let her decide. if she cant choose then i suggest something.

Leeying SG

but its like, sometimes i feel little upset, because my boy.f always can't make a decision about where we are going etc. it's like, he says that he wanna go out somewhere, but he can't decide the place and end up i'm the one making the decision. :(

FireIce SG

guys is like tt one

they go out they can look at other ppl's longkang and thighs

but own gf must wrap like mummy

laurence82 SG

not true wor

i know many girls who look for other guys

and keep their bf wrapped like mummies

fifi, time changed

Hcxm SG

will let my gf chooose whr to eat if she wans.

but if she let me choose i choose lor.

hmm..abt clothes, wear anyting can liao

FireIce SG

not true wor

i know many girls who look for other guys

and keep their bf wrapped like mummies

fifi, time changed

ok loh

then i oni look at u
and u oni look at me

TrueHeart SG

Hi Leeying,

Maybe it is because your bf wants to let you have a greater sense of autonomy as to where you wish to go to. Tell him nicely that he will have to decide where the two of you will go before asking you out next time.

Cheers.

maxsee SG

Frankly it boils down to individual...for me i wouldn't care less what my girlfriend want to wear.....i don't even mind if she wants to go and and party alone with ur friends or khakis......reason is simply i am confident of myself and where i stands in the social ladder.....if she wants to go let it be....it is pointless if u restrict her this and that....if u have what it takes in this society...it is girls chasing after u and not u chasing after girls.....

As for places to go and eat...i would usually ask the girl if she got any place she prefers to go...if not i would then proceed to suggest where to go and such....

so all in all it depends on the individual...

Fantagf SG

Don't know, so far I don't have problems like that.

yiha093 SG

i think i just let the girl decide where to makan, doesnt make a difference to me.

for clothing i think i will restrict, eg, no revealing clothes outisde. cause i dun like ppl see her. but i no gf. xD