Hi all,
This is my first time posting and just discovered this site less
than ten minutes ago after the whole day of agony.
I run a co that i own. I am married with 2 kids (6 & 8 y.o).
Wife is a senior management level professional. i am in mid 30.
I also teach. Recently i become close with this girl 21 (from
PRC), who is also my student, in two of the classes that i teach. I
have gone out with her like once a week for the past 4 weeks and i
am really feeling the attraction. I am not so sure about her
feeling though. She asked about my status and i have made full
disclosure.
We have gone for driving range (golf), waterfall (Johor),
cinema, of course, makan, etc. I don't feel good inside but cannot
stop wanting to go out with her. Tomorrow we are going out again.
Normally i do not go to work till like 1-2pm.
Two of my part time staff are leaving soon and i have decided to
let her work part time at my company.
I am in a super dilemma and have no one to counsel. Please help
if you can.
Billie,
Your posting is very funny.
You are not playing with fire, but playing with explosives.
Men like you are not very bright, and are easy prey. Easy
to tempt, easy to cheat.
While you want to keep the whole affair a secret, your mistress
won't. Which woman wants to be a permanent concubine ? NONE, we all
want to be the QUEEN, someday.
In a few more months, she will start calling up your wife to
tell her about the whole secret ordeal. Then everything will start
to unravel. Yep, all it takes is a phone call.
By then, you'd be toast. No reset button.
Now you claim you still love your wife. But your wife will not
be able to love you anymore , knowing you've put your dick in
someone else's cunt. You may deny all you want, but women has great
imagination. She will never be able to trust you EVER again.
When you finally leave your family, you'd be at the mercy of
your mistress. The ball will be at her court. She can then demand
all she wants from you, or you can always die another lonely old
failure.
Yet today, you let her into your company. Foolish move. She can
destroy not only your family, now she has access to your career
too. Your company's reputation is at stake.
If she cannot get what she wants from you, she has the power to
bring you to your knees.
You probably think women like your mistress are docile, stupid
and harmless.
Talk to people who's gone down this path, and you will realize
you are oh so wrong.
You probably thought that by declaring you are a married man,
and she willingly be your mistress, you'd be safe ? WRONG.
Because you are a married man, just means you have MORE to lose,
that means she has more to blackmail you with, should the situation
becomes unfavorable to her later. Unless you're just another
loser.
Play with explosives you will, be prepared to be blown to
bits.
Be smart, keep your mistress out of your company. Never let her
know your home address.
Your wife must be really dumb to not know you're betraying her.
But then again.. if she is really so smart.. she probably wouldn't
have married and gave birth to 2 kids with you anyway. Ofcors I am
mocking your wife, you're doing the same to her now.
And thost 2 kids of yours.. they're gonna grow up hating
you.
Good luck and good hunting.
