Both of u are 'testing' waters lar. In other words, means to an
end. What is the end only u know and he knows.
My suggestion - enjoy the 'trip' and forget about the end(s). If
u feel uneasy, lump it.
PS - love if it becomes or is made exclusive is not love
lar - but something else masquerading as love.
Previous posting to another :
One cannot possess love, it is always bigger than one. Assuming one
has it within - one can at
most, share, appreciate or partake of what is ... . Of
course, it is
possible to possess a person in the guise of love; what
good is a dead, plastic flower?
The heart hankers for eternity, sadly, the mind
interprets permanency!
Hence possessiveness comes into play. PS - Words are 'birds'
- the word 'love' is not love, the word 'God' is not God, and
the word 'fire' of course, is not fire. Love is an existential
herenow experience n the heart resonates that which
'frees' or is freeing. Love abides ONLY when reason(s) and
fear(s) are not there. Where there is an ego there is no love
but needs,expectations, jealousy, comparison .....
