Her
background:
- Malaysian, age below 25.
- Seperated with her ex-husband ard 3 years (still
not sign the divorce agreement in Malaysia).
- Abortion before
- Have a below 10 years old daughter (with her
ex-husband).
- Currently holding work permit and work in
singapore, share a rent room with her colleague.
- Have 5 unhappy relationship before.
- Average looking.
How
we know each other:
- My sister's friend.
Time
we know each other:
- 1 month plus.
Her
reasons to end our relationship:
- Thinks that all men re the same, treat her good at
first and slowly dun care her in future.
- She dun want to have child again.
- She dun like to have sex (her past experience
terrified her).
- She dun want to married again.
- She dun want to be hurt again.
- She not intend to stay in Singapore for long,
probably will go back KL in future.
- She said if she continue to be with me she have a
lot of things to think eg. how my parents look on her, no freedom
of leaving Singapore back to KL as and when when she tried of
working becos im in Singapore. Have to make arrangement to sign the
divorce agreement where she dun have the time to do so. (Cos her
current job working hours is very demanding)
- She mind her past and thinks that it is very
unfair to me. She wants me to find a better one and insists that
she is not good. she said I will be very stress and tired in future
if we are togather which she dun want to.
- She thinks I will regrets in future.
For
me:
- Singaporean, age near 30.
- Been through 2 unhappy relationship
before.
- Have the 'feeling' with her.
- Im very serious in relationship.
- I love her so I dun mind her past. (I knew all her
past on the 2nd weeks we know each other)
- I dun mind not getting married or have child and
my parent knew this (before i know her)
- Im very sure that I will not regret to be with
her.
- My parents are very understanding.
- My parent know we are very close friend (maybe
already guess we are togather) but they dunno her
background
Conclusion:
- I will tell my parent about her past soon and hope
they will accept her.
- If love someone should not mind her/his
past.
- I will do my very best to convince her to be with
me again (yesterday she break up with me)
- Should i give up on her? No!!!
