When you were troubled, he was there for you.
When he is in NS, you want him to be there for you again.
Have you ask him what he is going through in NS?
Some NS boys have rs problems while serving, and has
behaviourial problem in camp.
Some take their responsibilities seriously, and put their whole
heart, mind and soul into the task they have to do.
In the military, there is the constant battle, between those who
look out for themselves only and those that are concerned
for the men in their unit.
You are selfcentred, and complaining that he isn't giving you
the attention that you want.