hi all, this is my first post and i'm seeking for some opinions
and reasoning on my problems.
here it goes,
I'm just married my long time girlfriend and til now we are
having very good relationship. plenty of privacy and space and yet
we shared a lot of stuff among us :). But things gotten a bit
complicated for my father. My wife is a christian, but i'm not and
neither is my parents. My wife has NEVER insisted on me or my
parents to be christian as she truly believe that one has their
right in their belief. However, my father insisted her to perform
the chinese ritual and of course she has to take the joss stick, if
not he will "disown" me. As for myself i truly believe that each
has their right on religious belief, so i stand-by her and tell my
father to go ahead. ( and in fact i dun really care for my father
and what he is planning to do, and i wrote this to ensure that the
story above is not "onesided" favouring just me ). However my
mother, ( and no... i certainly care a lot for her ) is stuck
in-between unfortuately.On top of that, my father stops my mother
from visiting if not he will chase him out of the flat. ( BUT this
is NOT a problem as i can well afford to take care of my mum and i
WILL and so does my wife)
Now, assuming that u are in my situation, which would u choose,
force your wife to take the joss stick, ( which i believe if i'm
forceful enough, she will do ) or just ignore my father and
continues this saga.
As for me, i pick the latter. And if i ever pick the first
option, i will prefer to divorce her and suicide then to do that :)
and i have no fear for death if i have to bring suffering to my
love one and in a WRONG immoral ways
Do tell me your opinions thanks :)
