Virginity is indeed over-rated, to the core.
When you truly love, nothing really matters anymore, for you
would have love a person as a packaged whole, flaws and all, as
none is perfect.
To seek for perfection is to live in denial, obstination and
procastination.
Those who rate virginity as high value are nothing more than
selfish and self centred persons, for they view love as an object
to possess - virgin would only mean an untouched item to them, they
way they would view and purchase only new items. They know not nor
comprehend the concept of true love.
True love is to find out the character of a person, to be fully
aware of that person, flaws and all, to accept and to give love, in
returned to be loved, or in the lest, to serve a higher noble
calling of helping someone else in life, should the love not be
returned, for true love frees a person, never enslaves one.
There is so much we need to know still of love, even after 6000
years of recorded history. It is an alien concept, and bewildering,
for we are animals and beast at heart. Civilisation is
an imposition upon our ancient forefathers, so that humanity
may grow and survive. So too, was love....