how can one love and cheat at the same time ?
if you love, you don't cheat. if you cheat, you don't
love. so when a person says that she loves you, but behind
your back she's two-timing you, dating someone else, collecting
back-ups just in case the r/s with you fails, does she really mean
what she says about loving you ? isn't it hypocrisy ?
she's not committed. her heart is like a butterfly
fleeting from one flower to another, despite what she says about
settling down. action speaks louder than words.
Sorry to hear you feel that way about love.
'I Love You' is one of the most abused phrase in humanity.
Take a look at Planet Earth's divorce rates. Even spoken and vowed
under oath, can this phrase be broken. You realized now, do
you?
Yet it is one of the most cherished and treasured phrase any
human would long and even die for, if it is meant with all honesty
and taken seriously. Which is why there is more married couples
than divorcees.
Know then the importance and value of this phrase. We all make
mistakes, but will learn, just as you learnt how you felt when such
phrase was not taken seriously.
Therefore be sure that when you next utter it to someone else,
you mean every word of it. Change begins with us.