Simple - ok lar, love yourself, be kind to yourself, be a friend
to yourself, be fulfilled in yourself.
Understand your insecurity. understand what is not in u -
it will come to u eg, are u a loving person, are u being kind, are
u being patient ... add on.
Whatever happens on the outside is an event, the process is in U, always in
u.
An eg,
Two prisoners were locked up in a cell and one
particular nite both of them chanced upon a moon thru
the window cell.
One looked out and delited in the moon , the expereince was
uplifting.
The other cursed at the window bars.
Same event -
two inner
processes (experiences).
It is the same in our daily living - one who is lacking love,
lacking kindness ... add on - will always seek, will always see
what is missing.
One who is self-fulfilled, one who has love witin, kindness,
empathy within ... add on - is appreciative and most
of all
accepting of what is. Even when things situations go 'wrong' - he/
she can handle without blaming others/situations and tries to
change from within.
There is no meaning in life - meaning is always what
is inside each of
us. If one is always bitter , angry , whining - know this,
that one is lacking... on the other hand if one is rich within
......
PS - when i say within - i dont mean the mind, it is your heart, All the
riches are within each and everyone of us. It is not waiting
to be discovered, only recognition is needed.
The mind(ego) will reject and rationalize. Beware!