I need help and advice desperately.
On 8 May 2009, my husband was seen holding hands and hugging
waist with another woman by my sister. On 9 and 10 May, he
still can be with the family and acted as if nothing had
happened. Since 11 May 2009, he had deserted the family till
now.
My husband had an affair in 2006 when I was pregnant with my 2nd
child. I saw his mushy msg from the other woman during my
confinement period. I confronted him and he admitted the
affair. He left home for 4 days and returned to beg for
forgiveness. He was accepted back.
This time round, he admitted the affair with the same woman
again. It started in dec 2008. I talked to him after being the last
person being informed, I asked him to turn back but he said that it
was too late. He wanted a divorce.
He left home and did not reply my call or smses after
sometime. I started to claim maintenance from him and he
started to pester me to bring the children out without me. I was
desparate. I engaged a lawyer. However, my husband kept terrorising
me with his smses and it hurt me a lot. He had not apologised for
his mistakes but added that all was my fault. Even his family sided
him.
I need advice desparately on how to fight my custody of my 3
young children (eldest 4, 2nd 2yrs+ and youngest 1). I want to stop
him from terrorising and causing me more heartache. Since he
left, he had not given his monthly allowance.