Why she hates me?

last SG · 2009-08-19T12:27:48+00:00

thats better. Sorry i over-reacted just now. Its just that she kinda confuse me with her ignorance and seeing thru your comments makes me abit ticked off. y...

boi_cant tahan SG

Please guys, im really hurt here more like confuse. Ok this girl I like in work, well not love actually. Just makes me happy when she's around. Im not sure but i got this feeling she hates me. When we chatted thru msn, she talks like im her good friend. There's always a topic and i know we enjoy our convo. When we met, she says hi to me or good morning in a really happy way and i did the same.

But sometimes, we ignore each other. Like really, we passby the hallway and we just smile and nod. And then moments later, she invite me to lunch. And after that, we went so happy together. We chat and stuff. Then it goes back to square one as in we just treat together like strangers sometimes in msn too. Then the next day, she invites me to lunch again and we went happy again and when we were working tgt she's really happy and i mean it, we talk like there's no tmrw. This really confuse me. At that time, she sms me and i reply back. And when i sms her she reply me back with just a few txt msg then she didnt reply me back. Then when we met again, she went all happy around me again. wtf.... its like we are really close friends then sometimes we are like strangers. Im really confuse. pls advice and pls take it easy on me. Well my question is that why she treats me like this? does she hates me?

the Bear SG

you're her friend but sometimes she has better things to do...

get over it..

ditzy SG

The problem you see, is she want to treat you like colleague, but you want to treat her like friend. You are looking for something more, but she already set her limit to that much, so when she never reciprocate, you feel shortchanged lor.

Clarice_mei<3 SG

er i dont think she hates u. some of us girls like to test a guy, u see. We ignore the guy to see whether the guy makes a move. But by reading at your post, i think u always wants that girl to make the move first =.=. That ain't right

Hcxm SG

hmm.. i tink she wants to be jus frends with u only? thr is always up n down in relationship with ppl

the Bear SG

testing a guy is the first step to losing a guy because it just shows that you cannot bring yourself to trust him...

by doing that, you show that you cannot be trusted

Clarice_mei<3 SG

testing a guy is the first step to losing a guy because it just shows that you cannot bring yourself to trust him...

by doing that, you show that you cannot be trusted

er i dont think thats what im trying to say. Some of us are quite playful and sneaky ^^. Usually guys make the moves first, so thats what we do. She "ignore" the guy to wait his response towards her. How is he going to react. Its a playful thing but we chat to the guy later on ^^.

soul_rage SG

What's so difficult?

Just ask her out for dinner and a movie etc.

If she accepts, might be possible

If she rejects, then you don't even need to bother about the above :)

Toiletries SG

But isn't that your colleague and if things don't go the way you want, then it would be very, very awkward <.<

I suppose on a separate note, perhaps yes, she wants to see if you're going to make the first move or something, afterall, you mention there's no running out of conversation topics.

Stimulatedfib SG

i think u always wants that girl to make the move first =.=. That ain't right

Then I confirm no hope liao...... XP

redname SG

she doesn't hate you lah.

relax bro, play the game. if she wanna be frens, jus be frens lor

redname SG

is it the same tht u agree to go on a date with the guy but aft tht purposely reject him asking u out so as to "test" him?

jojobeach SG

I think the correct word is not test, rather " flirt ".

But I agree with you on that , TS should make a move already. TS acting like a "char tao" ( piece of wood).

Hcxm SG

u like to flirt with boys say la

mancha SG

She is a happy worker.

You are like a school boi who thinks the teacher loves him.

TheMissus SG

She is a happy worker.

You are like a school boi who thinks the teacher loves him.

hahhaa this is funny

HyuugaNeji SG

She's a player...You are the one being played.

Stimulatedfib SG

She is a happy worker.

You are like a school boi who thinks the teacher loves him.

Maybe that kind of idea help give birth to those AVs of "that type of genre". =X

Clarice_mei<3 SG

is it the same tht u agree to go on a date with the guy but aft tht purposely reject him asking u out so as to "test" him?

no that is like overboard le =.=. if he is like those shy type, then usually some girls keeps quiet and wait how he response.

hcxm, NO LA =.=.

AndrewPKYap SG

You have to ask her "Do you want to be my girlfriend?"

Unless she says yes, you can expect more of the same.