i need help please

FukNoob SG

i am a below average guy. i have liked this girl for a long time. she knows that i like her but she is not interested in me. i try to keep talking to her, but i am scared that i am disturbing her too much because she sometimes doesnt reply me. how can i make her fall in love with me?

Ajen SG

first post since 07.

mancha SG

What you need is ____________

CannyOng SG

U have a not very good head start but maybe u can continue to try it out.

Since yr time with her might be limited. Ask quality questions and not quantity questions. Find out her interest and likes, work on it. Most gals like surprise and romance. But don't overdo it.

Fugazzi SG

FukNoob,

One thinks that one gets what one wants in life. The reality is one attracts what one is.

So what are you BEING? eg, kind, loving or .... A good start is self-honesty!

FukNoob SG

What you need is ......

what do i need?

FukNoob SG

U have a not very good head start but maybe u can continue to try it out.

Since yr time with her might be limited. Ask quality questions and not quantity questions. Find out her interest and likes, work on it. Most gals like surprise and romance. But don't overdo it.

but how to surprise her and be romantic?

dkcx SG

How old are you?

Why do you say you are below average. Who are you comparing yourself with and comparing base on?

Love is not something you can force and forcing it won't help you at all.

viciouskitty74 SG

The only way you can expect anyone to fall in love with you is:

1) Study real hard and is the top 3 percent of your school. Meaning: Perform well in your studies, hobbies & work.

2) Pick up skills that will interest her to you.

One: Learn Salsa dancing, at least hip hop, learn to speak french & a foreign language effectively, learn to be able to play a musical instrument. Get your riding, driving, diving & even flying licences.

3) Clean up your room & your wardrobe.

4) Correct your posture, diction, fashion sense & your health eg, mental, physical & your dental health.

5) Do not disturb the girl by talking or sms-sing to her. She has her time-table. And stop expecting that she should reply your sms, that will be your first start.

And until you get yourself in a position where you are sexy and attractive, no girl will fall in love with you.

Fugazzi SG

Yes, when you are 'attractive and sexy' and have acquired all that is supposedly necessary - she will fall for u, certainly, but sadly she must be a bimbo, a dense one lah.

U will be a means to her end. Beware the fall!

caleb_chiang SG

age pls...

FukNoob SG

How old are you?

Why do you say you are below average. Who are you comparing yourself with and comparing base on?

Love is not something you can force and forcing it won't help you at all.

does my age really matter? because everyone says it that way. below average or average. i don't mean i wanna force. my point is, i only wished that she could, at least, like me or wad.

dkcx SG

does my age really matter? because everyone says it that way. below average or average. i don't mean i wanna force. my point is, i only wished that she could, at least, like me or wad.

Sometimes diff age group thinks differently and different solutions might be given.

What people say should have a reason for them to say so. Whats the reason or what have you done to make people say such things about you. Some examples?

I didn't mean physical force. What i meant was more that you cannot make someone like you overnight or immediately. Best to work on changing yourself first before trying to chase someone.

NG QIBO AARON AUBREY SG

sign on.

girls like men in uniform

Ersfcvxcv2 SG

i suck

<(0))>< SG

firstly.. how close are you with her? are you even frens with her?

if you are still studying. its most likely just a puppy crush and will go away eventually

dont tink too much or get too emotional over it.

FukNoob SG

Sometimes diff age group thinks differently and different solutions might be given.

What people say should have a reason for them to say so. Whats the reason or what have you done to make people say such things about you. Some examples?

I didn't mean physical force. What i meant was more that you cannot make someone like you overnight or immediately. Best to work on changing yourself first before trying to chase someone.

ok, im 18. i asked my friends for their opinions.

FukNoob SG

we are friends. regarding how close, i cannot confirm anything. because i don't know under wad circumstances then will it be considered close. the feeling has been with me for half a year already. ('-'ll)

Ajen SG

if you want an easy way,

be rich

20k ring will do.

Not only 1 but 100 girls would fall in love with u.

dkcx SG

ok, im 18. i asked my friends for their opinions.

Have you asked them why they rated you as average or below average? The way to change is to first know your flaws. If you cannot see it yourself then you will need your peers to 'highlight' it to you.