Cannot cope with everything !! URGH !!

Lokey SG

Someone help ?! EVER SINCE I STARTED SEC FOUR, I FEEL SO STRESS AND I FEEL LIKE KILLING MYSELF. URGH.

I come home at 5pm everyday because of remedial,once a week i have tuition until 7. When i go home i'm too tired to do anything ! During weekends i can't even get enough revision because my art project takes up alot of time. i feel like im doing all these for NOTHING !! why am i here studying like hell for ?!

i feel like i can't do ANYTHING right !!! im like totally lifeless, like my life is meaningless, i might as well pick up some skills and work, since nowadays if you want high pay must study until univerisity and i know i can't reach there. But my parents obviously will never let me quit school or they'll kill me or something.

super duper duper duper STRESS. my hair is seriously falling off more than usual. or my diet plan, whatever, i dun care. my social life, IS ZERO. i got no time to hangout with my friends AT ALL !!

URGH. i think im just complaining here. ANYHOW. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME HELPFUL COMMENTS?!?!?!? *screams*

What the HECK!? Why you are so stress over such a small matter?

[feel like being evil today]

I dont understand why you are so stress over such as simple O level certification process. Have you not learnt anything since Sec 3. Or have you been sleeping since Sec 3. If you do your sec 3 well, for the O level you are already 75% completed. That is 75% of the O level cert is from Sec 3 work. It is already an A1 if you get 75 marks. What more do you want?

Sec 4 is only the remaining 25% of the O level syllabus. Plus the revision NOW.

Last time, when I was taking my O level, I only study during studied hours, that is during school hours. Never go for remedial, Cannot be bothered about it . After school hours, is my own time, basketball, computer games, my CCA. And I never studied my O level during Sat and Sun (Already reading/studying for A level year 2 now at your time), now. And in fact during August, Sept, Oct. I already let go and not studying anymore. I have already completed looking through the O level syallbus since sec 2 and only left the memorizing. I aimed at that time is to top the school. Yours is only passing O level so why you are so stress and complaining about this small little things.

Art <-- this is something that really take up a lot of time. This subject was offered to me as an EXTRA EXTRA subject it is lucky that I did not take up.

If you have been lazy and sleeping through your Sec 3 and Sec 4 (sem 1) then it is high time you wake up and see which assessment book you have not finished doing.

PLAN YOUR TIME WELL.

STUDY THOSE YOU HAVE MISSED OUT. DO NOT GO OVER AND OVER ON THINGS YOU ARLEADY KNOW. DONT WASTE TIME.

DO WHAT EVER ASSESSMENT BOOK YOU CAN FIND. ONCE YOU GET THE CORRECT ANSWER. YOU ALREADY MASTERED THE CONCEPT.

DO NOT MEMORIZE. UNDERSTAND THROUGHLY GAINED ENLIGHTENMENT ON THE CONCEPTS.

GO BEYOND THE O LEVEL SYALLBUS TO KEEP YOU TO UNDERSTAND. something when things are over simplified it is very hard to understand, because there are missing facts or illogical.

GO THROUGH THE O LEVEL Syallbus and tick the items you know and missed.

Fugazzi SG

The stress is not what is in front u now - it's the projection into thefuture and its taken residence in your mind!

Also, u accumulate all that u need to study and now its a mountain to climb!

Studying smart is doing what is necessary when it ought to be done - eg, pay attention in class when in reality u are somewhere in your mind. pay attention to all these that u overlook and it will come to you.

Ah Chia SG

The most demoralising part about studying for o levels is that most of the stuff that you studied is of no practical use whatsoever in real life and probably forgotton after a few years.

Forbiddensinner SG

The most demoralising part about studying for o levels is that most of the stuff that you studied is of no practical use whatsoever in real life and probably forgotton after a few years.

It will also depends on which line you work in.

Stomp661 SG

Next time you wanna complain about something, think about people in Haiti have to eat mud cookies to survive.

Ah Chia SG

It will also depends on which line you work in.

But if talking about majority of people?

Stomp661 SG

Next time you wanna complain about something, think about people in Haiti have to eat mud cookies to survive.

And also think about people in Africa have to eat cow dung to survive.

I-like-flings(m) SG

Masterbate more to help you relieve stress

i was thinking to reply this too.. damn...u beat mi to it...

Ah Chia SG

And also think about people in Africa have to eat cow dung to survive.

Next time you wanna complain about something, think about people in Haiti have to eat mud cookies to survive.

Can also think about less stressful countries like Australia, New Zealand, Canada, why so many people migrating etc.

Daisuke-kun SG

ur remedial, cannot spend time with frens meh.

don't tell me you all the way do work during school.

Herzog_Zwei SG

Can also think about less stressful countries like Australia, New Zealand, Canada, why so many people migrating etc.

Says who that Australia, New Zealand, Canada, are less stressful?

Fugazzi SG

This quote from Shakespeare illustrates the delusion of many :

The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars,

But in ourselves, that we are underlings.

One can go anywhere but if one is lacking WITHIN- it will still surface!

Deino SG

low qualifications doesn't mean you can't earn big bucks..

but you must at least have some or good qualifications if you wanna earn some decent bucks....

dun stress yourself too much...wot dun kill you will only make you stronger...

dun you have any ambition?

Education in Singapore is like competitions...especially when parents push their kids so that they could have a "good" future...

But the Singapore education lifestyle is more relaxed as compared to other countries...

My korean friend used to tell me his timetable when he was studying in his homeland...they got nightclasses...

xtreyier SG

Your stress is real, a reality that is so painful that you would even contemplate losing your own precious life.

Millions of other people can give you the best counsels, but in the end... it will your own decision to make to enable you to live with lesser stress.

To make that choice, then you must be prepared to accept the consequences and repercussions that follow. Your O levels are near, and everyone else is feeling that pressure. Perform well and you go for tertiary education.

Give up now, have fun and social life, do what you want may relieve that stress.

Therefore, just do a little thinking - is the few months of working hard worth it for your future, to enjoy better years in your life later, or do you need a break now, give up or perhaps start over your sec 4 again next year?

You do have a choice, just as millions of your peers in the world have it as well. You are not alone. But only you alone determine your future, but once that choice is made, you cannot regret, nor expect sympathy, just like Uncle Chia is expecting for himself.

HarisZXC SG

crying helps! i used to cry alot during really stressful times. I imagine all negative emotions leaving my body through vessels which are the tears that i make when crying and i always feel more refresh after crying and after the nap which follows after several minute of crying :). I used to cry alot during my O level days. It helped me pull through. Now even when my internet speed get fkin slow, i cry. Why? because im a man, and man do cry.

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