Its like this de lah. Always last minute "humji" then dont dare
to tell her. Even though u plan "sui sui" in ur mind step by step
on how to approach her, talk to her. But then when the time comes
to execute ur "plan" u decide to back out and try again the next
time which u always swear to urself u will but end up humji-ing
again and again haiz...
Happened to me too, theres this girl that i met in a new class,
i was checking the class out when her eyes met mine,so i gave her a
friendly smile, then she smiled back! I didnt think much of it for
the first time. When i went for my class the second time, i smiled
at her again when she came into class and she smiled back.
Sometimes when girls do this kind of things like smiling at u or
looking away when u catch her looking at u, they are sort of like
hinting "Enough with the smiling and looking already! Its okay to
approach me and talk!" Especially for shy girls, they like guys who
take the initiative.
But she was always with her friends! I do not know her friends
so it was really "paiseh" and just not right u know, to just
approach the girl that u like and ignore the rest of her friends.
Also i was afraid that she would get teased by her friends. She
ended up gaving me lots of hints/chances to talk to her like
walking extremely slowly after classes and looking back u know that
kind of stuffs, but i still couldnt and didnt do it, and she ended
up taking the initiative when i noticed her standing beside me
alone and so i finally mustered all my courage and said hi to her
and asked for her name etc. But it was very obvious that she was
disappointed that she had to take the initiative, i guess now we're
gona be stuck in the "friends zone" for a long time.
So for guys with similar experiences, please do not hestitate to
approach the girl that u like and chat them up.
