Thanks for all the advices. She has replied my email. Saying she
cannot be with me knowing my mentally that i'm thinking she came
back to me becoz she couldnt find anyone else. & hope it's
better we can be remains as friends. As much as i want her back i
also respect her decision & knowing her the more i press her
the more she will close up..anyway i knew i mess up.
During our last break up, she keep all the photos we had
together posted online, statue she still put "attached"..This time
if she also didnt remove it...(yet)...so can i presume i still
stand a chance if i let her cool off n forget abt tis for another
6mths or so?..abt the same period we broke off previously..while
during this period i'll just linger ard as "friend" to provide her
with watever she needs.. or u guys thinks that i should forget
about the whole thing n move on..
Whether you are to move on or not.. it all depends on how much
you want her to be with you.
Obviously she is badly insulted by your remarks.
While you think you are the one taking a huge risk taking her
back, you must understand that she is also taking a huge risk
patching back with you.
All returner will fear being treated like a second class human
being after going back to the original partner..unfortunately you
had to go and actually treat her like one.
She has made it very clear to you that it is because of the way
you think about the comeback relationship that made the return a
difficult one.
Your actions and hurtful things you said proved that you are NOT
into the relationship either. So why would a girl stick around a
guy who is not going to put in 100% ?
So, if you want to have her back.. you must allay her fear, and
give her tons of reassurance that you will not make the same
mistake a second time.
Giving her 6 months is too long.. anything can change the
playing field during this few months.
You should let her know NOW that you are willing to wait until
she is emotionally ready to trust you again. And will do all you
can to make it work this time.
Keep the line open.. and prod her once a while. Continue to woo
her like the way you used to before both of you become a
couple.
But if you don't want to continue .. then it's best to end it
now lor. This part.. very easy lah.