Dad & Mistress

last SG · 2009-07-29T00:26:58+00:00

Have a man to man talk to your dad. Fking hell, bring mistress home. If i were you i would fuck him nicely.

Forbiddensinner SG

Maybe rape and kill her than eat her up

As I said, it will be pointless.

TS will be charged by the law, and his father will just have to look for another china woman.

Forbiddensinner SG

wtf?

What he means is that TS's father is not in the right mindset to actually think about all these things.

xxxxxlamer SG

Ths TS is also an adult now. He has a right and say in this kind of situation.

5 years ago you were only 16, there wasn't much you could do either way.

what do you think he could possibly do? stop him? force him? threaten him?

Forbiddensinner SG

Pyscho out the bitch & your dad. Scare them, make them feel uneasy, uncomfortable. Try different ways.

But even if he breaks off with her, he can easily go find another since they are flooding the island like nobody's business.

If your mom choose to divorce, she probably can get a sum of money frm your dad. Gather evidence 1st. & since AWARE probably will make a big fuss out of this, contact them to help loh lol

What many of you seem not to understand is that there is no way for TS to legally harrass or challenge the woman.

If he tries anything foolish, like psychoing as you suggested, he will only get into trouble with law.

If the TS is put behind bars, who will have the last laugh?

Forbiddensinner SG

Another way is to get all the children and mother to pressure the father to leave the china bitch.

Tell him that their mother will divorce him and his children will no longer acknowledge him if he do not break up with her. Let him chose between his family and her.

He is not in the right mindset currently.

Odds are high he will choose the China woman.

Etbackhom SG

hi!agenda i m very new to the blog but make me feel that so close to this blog ..becouse i got same group of the ppl having the same kinda of "problem".. agenda i m mather of 2 son divorce because of 3rd party too .. i growth up in a family of broken family too .life today in me have to suffer the same heppaning .. i thought i got the same happening in my young time wont happen now in my late age life ,but the truth is .. happened ..and still got to move on my life in emotional . and mentoly .also responsible for my love one and still got to face the fanacialy suffer.see life is not only we can see or known or now is suffer but wont be happening any more .. this time is not the last but that is more to go .. take that as your life even ..and move in a better life with some one is good ..and dont let this time stop your life going .. remenber you may be one day to be some one husband and be a father . or ... inlow ... so move your life with what u are and what u have ..improve them .. many watching it ..stand for some one is WEAK dont trade in with evil if not we suffer like osama binlading ..is a longer suffer even the kid die for his thought ..

Forbiddensinner SG

what do you think he could possibly do? stop him? force him? threaten him?

Talk it out with his dad, simple as that.

Notice that I am not advocating violence as most of the forummers are doing.

If nothing goes through TS's father's brain, then all he could do is to be a pillar of strength for his mother.

Some of the forummers have suggested a two-women and one man family, but I can tell you out of all the cases I deal with thus far, only 1~2 manage to succeed in having such a family setting.

JerryYan SG

Talk it out with his dad, simple as that.

Notice that I am not advocating violence as most of the forummers are doing.

If nothing goes through TS's father's brain, then all he could do is to be a pillar of strength for his mother.

Some of the forummers have suggested a two-women and one man family, but I can tell you out of all the cases I deal with thus far, only 1~2 manage to succeed in having such a family setting.

r u a social worker or lawyer

xxxxxlamer SG

r u a social worker or lawyer

forbidden lawyer meh?

Forbiddensinner SG

Ello there, this is a forum, not a blog. And welcome to sgforums.

I apologise for saying so, but your words are very messy and your sentence structures are very bad. Please do put in spacing between paragraphs next time round. Thanks.

What you were trying to say : ( At least I think so )

Hi Agenda, I am very new to this forum but this thread reflects my previous situation.

I am the mother of two, and I suffered a failed relationship due to a 3rd party.

I grew up in a broken family, and I told myself the same thing won't happen to me, but alas, the same tragic that broke my family apart befell me once again.

But I still got to move on in my life, both emotional-wise and mental-wise. I also have to be responsible to my loved ones ( Namely children ) and deal with financial problems.

Life is about suffering, not just in the past, not just in the present, but also in the future. Take all these as lessons in life, and don't let your life stop here over the sake of this incident. Move on in your life.

Just remember that one day you will be a father and a husband, keep all these lessons you have learnt in mind and improve upon them.

Stand up for those who are weak and do not fall into the evil side like Osama Bin Laden, who allows his preachings and actions to cause the sufferings of amny children. ..

Forbiddensinner SG

r u a social worker or lawyer

Social worker. Non-registered Community Counsellor.

Currently preparing for studies in NIE though, so can't really help out much in the community.

Edit: Off for lunch, will be back later.

BadzMaro SG

Mistresses, secret offsprings... but i was suprised that the dad even brought her home where u n ur mum lives.

haiz.... sigh...

damn...

DAMN!

Maybe one thing ur mum can do as some for of remedy, is that she accept the fact, but she is queen bee. N all monetary funds go through her n she will come to some sort of understanding, agreement and /or settlement.

I know its fudged up... but all other alternatives lead to losing either parents n lose lose lose..

at least ur mum gets to control assets and finance.

hisoka SG

I would advise talking calmly to the father and if fails then advocating divorce to the mother and supporting the mother.

Should also try to take as much money as possible for the mother and get alimony. Not to get back at the father or the woman, but because it would help the mother to survive and live on well.

Arapahoe SG

why rush into divorce......

Divorce causes more than bitterness and broken hearts: The trauma of a split can leave long-lasting effects on mental and physical health that remarriage might not repair, according to new research

Hwaimeng SG

if u are advicising yr mum to divorce yr dad make sure u get some evidance 1st before taking action.

with the picture of yr dad having a mistress outside u all are better at winning the suitation and the court will make sure he issue u and yr remaining family a lump sum of $$$ either by 1 time payment of a period of time .

(this is some secure for yr family)

let the sult cheat yr ex-dad remaining $$$ and when the day she left yr ex-dad because he have no $$$ left then im sure he will come back and beg to re-united with u all.

then its up to yr choices.

if u and yr mum are keep mmmmm about this matte and let yr dad do as he wish, then its would 100% be a unfavour suitation because

1. that sult is younger . slut, and know how to twiste old man in her hand. u all wont be able to win her in any suitation because deep in her mind she die die will wan yr dad to feed her.

2. yr dad have already cast u all aside already. before he commited himself to this sult im sure he have already consider his family 1st. and the decision he make is to be with the younger sult because he can enjoy fresher (but stink) fruit.

there a lot to type ... ah yo i no time .......

ask yr mum to think of u and her furture instead of sticking to the hate that u all have on yr dad now.

(THINK OF U AND YR MUM FURTURE~!!!!!) dont follow the hate~!!!!

jojobeach SG

kekekeke.. this thread is getting a little bit ridiculous, no ?

Agenda, Your mother still loves your father or not ?

If she still loves him.. she will divorce him.

If she no longer loves him... she will not divorce him lor.

PedoBear SG

why rush into divorce......

the father getting CPF soon, so old already where got so much effect

few more years need to bury already

Forbiddensinner SG

the father getting CPF soon, so old already where got so much effect

few more years need to bury already

Not true.

The problem now is that blood is flowing into the wrong head of TS's father, and thus he isn't think properly about all these stuffs.

When he lost all his money to the China Woman ( henceforth known as CW ) and got dumped by her, he would realise how much hearthache the divorce has caused him.

themoment86 SG

just let your father die outside...so what if he is gonna be alone?since he know what he is doing..then let him be..so what if he is your father?so what if you are his son...seriously..SO WHAT?divorce liao also must make sure to get half of his asset..let him know what he done now is getting no way..

Arapahoe SG

the father getting CPF soon, so old already where got so much effect

few more years need to bury already

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