Sense of Security

last SG · 2009-07-08T14:41:01+00:00

I saw that coming. next year right?

p228 SG

Just wondering...

How to give the girls her share of sense of security?

I am totally clueless...

FireIce SG

diff gers diff expectations

and gers usually wun say out directly wat she wants or how she feels

this type of thing........haf means haf, dun haf means dun haf.......

Ms.shells SG

Just wondering...

How to give the girls her share of sense of security?

I am totally clueless...

Marry her :)

ditzy SG

I saw that coming.

p228 SG

diff gers diff expectations

and gers usually wun say out directly wat she wants or how she feels

this type of thing........haf means haf, dun haf means dun haf.......

Is there anything on my part that I can do to make her feel "secure" ?

charlie chaplin SG

though you can do your part, she has to do her part too. it doesnt make sense for u to try to make her feel secure if shes always flirting around and having affairs right?

is she feeling insecure because of your lifestyle? or is it because she feels inadequete? lots of angles to this issue..

p228 SG

Marry her :)

I am trying to..

I understand how she feel.. and that she is older than me.. Of cos she would like to settle down soon..

But my current financial situation does not allow me to.. Not that i do not want..

My job pays me like only 2k per month.. How to get married quick?

ditzy SG

Is there anything on my part that I can do to make her feel "secure" ?

Ask her what are her plans on starting a family, but you must reciprocate too, tell her yours first.

p228 SG

though you can do your part, she has to do her part too. it doesnt make sense for u to try to make her feel secure if shes always flirting around and having affairs right?

is she feeling insecure because of your lifestyle? or is it because she feels inadequete? lots of angles to this issue..

Nope.. She never flirts..

Perhaps ba.. Sometimes I would like to spend some time playing games..

She say I "lazy, unmotivated".

And because both our salaries are so low, I think she can't see the future in us..

Forbiddensinner SG

Nope.. She never flirts..

Perhaps ba.. Sometimes I would like to spend some time playing games..

She say I "lazy, unmotivated".

And because both our salaries are so low, I think she can't see the future in us..

Ask yourself first if that is true or not.

FireIce SG

u dun haf to perpersly do anything
if she can feel it she can feel it

p228 SG

Ask yourself first if that is true or not.

I personally don't think so..

Ms.shells SG

Nope.. She never flirts..

Perhaps ba.. Sometimes I would like to spend some time playing games..

She say I "lazy, unmotivated".

And because both our salaries are so low, I think she can't see the future in us..

Well if financial security is what she needs, so you must find a higher paying job and don't forget to tell her that you will work hard and will give her all the money you have once you and her get married

p228 SG

How to get higher paying job?

I am only 24 this year.. with a diploma..

FireIce SG

so it's abt the money???

24 nia and thinking of getting married liao ah.........

ditzy SG

so it's abt the money???

24 nia and thinking of getting married liao ah.........

At least he is planning early, unlike me, late bloomer.

Forbiddensinner SG

How to get higher paying job?

I am only 24 this year.. with a diploma..

Sign on as a regular if you are serious about starting a family with her soon.

Btw, is your diploma a local one? If it is, what is your GPA?

candiz SG

Just wondering...

How to give the girls her share of sense of security?

I am totally clueless...

less clubbing

Q.C.Pak SG

Buy her a lock.

Dun forget the set of keys.

Fantagf SG

Just mean what you say. don't go round flirting. be sincere. show you care, you treasure her. put your words in action.

Sincerity is the key!