It is noble for you to want to give your woman a good life, as
it should be with all men.
But you have to be realistic in the end. What is considered 'a
good life' anyway? Is
a shipyard worker considered giving his family
a 'bad life' with his pathetic earnings and social standing, even
after he had taken care of his wife and watch his kids go through
Uni?
Is a BMW, a career in a GLC company, often away, a condo, no or
only just 1 kid, considered a 'good life'?
And such 'lives' are good for who? You or your partner? Should
not a good life be shared, in good times and in bad? Are we
civilised beings or rapacious wild beasts, that we must be 'king'
and be at the top of the food chain?
Questions, questions...unanswerable, save yourself to know and
realize. Nobility is one thing, possessing love that is not
true love, and living a responsible shared eternity are issues
that you have to grapple with and confront the reality before you,
as clear as the piece of crystal you are demanded with...
Have a pause and listen to this song.
i like what you said. i'm in a similar situation as TS. this had me
thinking.
