I have been dating this girl for some time. Been considering
whether to actually go for her. But whats been bothering me is that
she's still hangs out with her ex bf, and at certain times hitch a
ride from him to work etc. She always highlights that she's already
move on when i qn her. So should i just move on or go for
it?
You can choose to start a steady relationship with her, but the
most important thing is to ask her to cut contact with her ex.
We have quite a number of cases here, especially one which is
just a month or two back, where a lady got dumped by her bf because
she has frequent contact with her ex. Fortunately the two of them
got back together again in the end.
If you do not want your relationship to turn sour and end up
like these cases, you have better ask the girl to sit down with you
and talk directly heart-to-heart with her about your concern.
It is not a shameful thing or whatsoever, and there is no need
to hide it, the fact is that most guys are unable to tolerate a
girl keeping frequent contact with her ex(s).