A week ago, I got to know this philippines girl in my work place
and she's from a attachment in her school from her country and the
things is that she has flew back to philippines just yesterday
morning, I really miss
her.
Before she return home, I even ask her to be my gf and she
agrees and she even told me that she'll return to S'pore in Nov
after she graduated to look for me. I don't know should I wait
or fly to philippines and look for her myself, she had gave me
her address in philippines.
From now till Nov, it's like 5 months away and I can predict the
feelings might faded away and no doubt that she can go look for
another guy. Forumers, do you think I should wait for fly there
myself?
You know her only for one week, and now you want her to be your
other half for the rest of your life. Now you are worried about her
being unfaithful to you, hence you are going to philipines to try
and bind her to you.
It is up to you, but there are a lot of things to consider
about. Once you go there, you will not only be seeing her, but also
her family. Are you prepared for that? And also, what will your
family think about when their son told them that he is going to
philipines to look for his gf?
Adding on, what are you going to do when you go over and see
her? Just say hi? Are you going to stay with her family or are you
going to find your own lodgings?
Putting aside the fact that many forummers have said, you are
lusting over her, there is also the fact that you don't seem to be
really planning ahead. You feel that you really need her a lot, and
thus you forget a lot about the basic things which you need to and
should have consider.
This is not a voting thread to let you make a choice whether to
go over to meet her or not, but I will still strongly advice you to
think through it thoroughly before making any rash decision.
Ultimately, it is still your choice.
