I have a friend who has a gf who is a christian.
He is very piss off with her already.
Everytime he ask her to go out, she will suggest going to
church, cell group etc. Everytime he goes to her house, she will
ask him to read the bible and pray together. When he ask her to go
clubbing, she say that it is no good.
Most importantly, when he ask her for sex, she say that
Christians are not allowed to have premartial sex.
He does not want to break up with her because she is very
pretty. He is a quiet person and he is not rich not handsome also
so it will be difficult for him to find another gf.
How should he handle this gf who always ask him to do christian
things? Most importantly, how is he going to make her have
premartial sex with him?
"Everytime he
ask her to go out, she will suggest going to church, cell group
etc. " --> could be that she wants your fren to go and
learn more abt God and yes to try to convert him into a christian.
and also another thing to know her frens. so your fren have a
choice here, he can either not go or go.
"When he ask
her to go clubbing, she say that it is no good." --> she dun
like go clubbing. it's her choice not to go. i dun see anything
wrong with it.
"Most
importantly, when he ask her for sex, she say that Christians are
not allowed to have premartial sex." --> this is her choice as
well. your fren cannot force her to do something that she is not
willing to.
"He does not
want to break up with her because she is very pretty" --> this
sounds a bit wrong but i question the reason why ur fren like her
in the first place? is it really like her for who she is inside or
just on the outer appearance?
"He is a quiet
person and he is not rich not handsome also so it will be difficult
for him to find another gf." ---> it sounds to me that your fren
has low self-esteem in himself and place a lot his security in the
relationships that he is having.
" How should he
handle this gf who always ask him to do christian things?" -->
there is no stopping the girl from asking ur fren to go to church
and all but i guess ur fren do have the choice to say no or
yes.
"Most
importantly, how is he going to make her have premartial sex with
him?" --> is sex the most important thing that your fren want to
get out of this relationship? there is a difference between lust
and love. ultimately, your fren cannot force his gf to do something
that she do not wish to and that i hope the girl would have
discernment over this relationship
