If you are achievement-orientated, you would focus on attaining
all the things you want in life but at the same time, neglect to
spend time with friends and family. And you worry someday
down the road, you will be all lonely despite achieving so
many things.
If you are fun-orientated, all you care is about having fun with
friends and prob someday 10yrs down the road, you find out that you
have not done anything you are proud of to achieve. But yes, u have
lots of friends.
Which 1 is better? Happy memories or achievements? Its really a
dilemmna for me.
It is not good to have only either of them, what one truly needs
is a good mixture of fun and hardwork.
If you are too achievement-orientated, you will give up
everything around you just to succeed, and in turn you will lose a
lot of precious friendships; and the distance between you and your
family will widen.
If you are too fun-orientated, you will end up having fun and
forget about working hard. Many years down the road, you will
realise that you will have lose all your true friends, as they have
move on in their life and you will still be acting like a teenager.
The only ones who will surround you are those who do not bother to
work and keep dreaming about short cuts to success.
Don't worry too much about all these, just work as hard as you
could, and yet at the same time pay attention to the loved ones
around you. A truly successful person will not only succeed in
their work, but will also be loved and cared for by those around
them.
