i've been facing this problem for quite some time now. whenever
i'm around with girls, i usually keep quiet cause i dont know
what to say to them. What do girls like to talk about in general?
Please dont give me crap answers like Sex etc, thank you.
i'm definitely not an unapproachable and act cool type of guy. I
smile whenever i can, i laugh at jokes out loud even when i might
be the only one around who find them to be funny. i'm a happy go
lucky type of guy. I'm approachable but sometimes just dont take
enough initiatives to talk, only to girls. I have no problems
clicking with new guy friends but currently facing problems with
girls. I can say hello, hi to them, but thats the farthest i can
go. Have been in awkward situations where it seems like the girls
were just waiting for me to speak up, but i really have no clue
what to talk about with them so it might appear to them that im
either just ignoring them or not interested to talk, i'm quite an
emo guy so i actually care about how they feel.
i've came across this quote somewhere in the buddhist forum
section which i found to be very insightful: Sometimes one
creates a dynamic impression by saying something, and sometimes one
creates as significant an impression by remaining silent.
So usually i dont actually speak much unless im with my closer
friends. Any sincere advices would be appreciated much, thanks.
Gals like to talk, It's great if u are the type lazy exercise yr
mouth.
U just need to ask the correct question to make them continue
talking non stop!
What's bothering u? I will only frek if I met a gal who
don't likes to talk even I pop her questions.
