I don't think so. It is good her man wants to get
a job with as much pay as possible, and also one which will allow
him to write in his resume for future jobs, but he seems to be a
bad planner who could only plan half of the things.
Indeed, he tried to go for the jobs which he think will help him
go according to his plans, but he did not study the jobs deep
enough to realise what is required from him. As such, as most of
the fellow forummers here will agree, this type of person is better
of learning things the hard way.
As for labbish, I won't say she is being too naggy, she just
care a lot for the person she loves. And to be honest, I will say
she has better foresight than her other-half. She thought all about
her lover's future, not only his present job-dilemma, but also his
future studying need, and also his future career.
If her other-half think he could handle study and job together,
I will say he will have "fun" enjoying his uni time. If he crack
under pressure, the worst situation will be that he gave up both
his studies and his part time job.
Indirectly, she worries about his future career, for if he
couldn't do well in his studies, how could he get a good job in the
future?
On the otherhand, having a 'customer service' is better than
having a 'kitchen helper' on his resume. Here is where labbish is
wrong. With experience in the customer service sector, it will be
easier for her other-half to enter careers which require him to
have frequent direct customer contact, such as counselling and
marketing. The extra experience will also help him in dealing with
difficult and troublesome customers in the future.
What could 'kitchen helper' on the resume do? Future kopitiam
bowl-washer? I certainly hope not. ( Touchwood ).
What good his current job depends on what he intends to be in
the future.
If like most people who wish to climb the corporate ladder, a
kitchen helper will do no good on his resume.
However.. if he aspires to be a chef or restauranteur... kitchen
helper is a good start to his culinary future.
Then it depends on what kind of work the gf wants to marry
into.
Does the gf wants to marry a culinary expert or she wants to
marry a CEO ? But does it really matters ?
No matter what profession he ends up.. if the wife or partner is
not supportive.. the marriage is doomed to fail anyway.