She is burdened with the past (psychological/emotional
HANGOVERS!) and to blame her for what u feel is utterly selfish on
your part especially for how u feel. Man, u are responsible for
what u feel, u own it, the 'cause' could be her, anyone, it does
not matter - the reaction/response is what emanates from you. It
comes from within
you.
She(anyone) is on
earth not to fulfil you or anyone but to attain to her
destiny - rt/wrong is subjective/relative. To expect anyone
- be it in a relationship, even in a marriage to fulfil
another is being a burden on another>
Love in its highest form is empathy not sympathy, and it
(love) does not seek out another to fulfil - it seeks to
share , to appreciate. - To circumsribe love/freedom is
encroaching on another's path = its akin to telling
someone that you are only allowed to 'breathe' when you are
with me.
One can extract promises to buy a car, a house, ... but to
extract promises especially more so when it concerns matters of the
heart is binding another and oneself to a cage.
If you are unfree inside - u will never free another - the love
that frees another is love that everybody hankers for.
Lest its miscontrued, i m not implying that u are wrong n
she is right or vice versa. Both of u, and all of us one time or
another - succumb to such debilitating emotions and its part of the
package.
She is his first and only one. Please don't expect him to be a
Einstein in relationships.
