I just broke up with my boyfriend of 1 year and 5 months because
I found out that he had hired escorts and even had sex with one
(only one or so he claims)
In our the relationship, I'm always the one to talk about our
future and marriage and he always agrees with everything though he
has never initiated any talks about marriage, which makes me think
he's not sincere about marrying me or has never given it any
thought.
The thing is he was a virgin so I was his first, and the reason
he gave for doing what he did was because he wanted to experience
other female encounters. And he swore that was the first and last
time.
I have no idea what I should do or if I should forgive him.
Because I've had other men before him so I cannot bring myself to
fault him for what he did. But I have never cheated in any of my
relationships. On the other hand if he cheated on me once, what's
to stop him from doing it a second time?
I really don't know what I should do. I'm mid twenty so it's not
too late to look for other trees in the forest but I also wonder if
I believe in him that it will never happen again.
Any opinions or words of advice will be deeply appreciated.
and the reason he gave for doing what he did was because
he wanted to experience other female encounters.
There might be a second time, then a third time, forth, and so
on. (but i canot guarantee if he will stop)
Cuz trying 1 person aint enough.
You think la. You only live once, and trying 2 ple in your life,
like that enough meh?
