now right, she seems to come say hi to me but got nth to say
leh, what does this means? anyone can interpret?? Dunno what she is
thinking either…...
Young man, you are only 13 years old. I know that you hate anyone
who tries to make you think you are a child, but the truth is that
you are not an adult for sure. Just a growing one and confuse with
the complexities of life.
Do be careful with love, espacially for another person other
than your family, for you are not ready for that kind of
committment. Your emotional level is still in its growing
stage.
Right now your confusion comes from not being able to understand
women. Don't worry, most grown men, including myself, still don't.
But one thing we do know is that it is best to be friends,
espacially at your age.
Being friends will remove that responsibility of committment to
another that you are not ready to bear at this young age. Love is
not a toy that you can play with when you please and then chuck it
aside when you want something else, even for grown adults.
Being friends will not have 'nothing to say'. You can talk about
anything under the sun - movies, school, subjects, teachers,
friends, family, celebrities, etc. Be more of a listener than a
talker, then she will feel comfortable talking to you. No one
enjoys talking to a braggard or a bore.
Studies must come first, but i know it can be boring.
Unfortunately, it is something we must do well right now, or we
will regret later and may not even have a gf when you most need
one, because we may not have a good job to support ourselves, let
alone a gf and family.
If she studies in the same school as you, you will still be able
to see her daily, so it's like its not that you will see her no
more and miss her. She is still a friend, and do have a right to
choose her friends, just as you too.
Remember, it can only be friends now, for you and your peers are
not ready or stable enough to handle love and its complexities.
Don't bother about others and what they do. Some grow up and
mature faster than others. Let you be one of them to be
similarly so. Studies must come first, and have friends to
enjoy your youth, not steady gf. Your time will come in the future,
but not now.
You will be able to forget her easily at your age, for if you
fill your life with studies and good friends with a wider social
circle and hobbies, you will have an enjoyable youth and in time
forget about her, and cease to want to control her life,
regardless alone or she with another bf.
