Is it considered petty and unreasonable if the gf is upset that
the bf went to ask for the contact of another girl that he met when
he was out clubbing?
If the gf did not tell the bf how she felt,but pretended nothing
happened,is it good for the relationship?
Opps, my net connection went down yesterday so i could put in
the 2nd half of my comments.. =(
1.) Depends. Are you in an exclusive relationship? If no,
then its to be expected from the guy. Though any girl wouldn't be
happy to see someone they like go hit on another girl and vise
versa, so i'd say the guy lacks sensitivity. If yes, then try to
find out why. Communication is important but try not to do it in a
accusing tone. Anyway, either way, i'd say the guy's
insensitive.
2.) Ah.. the typical recipie for a big fight. As i said on top,
communication is important for a healthy relationship. Communicate
that you do not like it in a 'do not care' tone and it'll only show
more of the guy's intention as this may have been his way of seeing
you be jealous. He'd either -
A. Continue to do the same thing if he's really dumb / Not that
into you / Just plain insensitive. In this case, i'd recommend to
seek greener pastures.
B. He'd realize it doesn't work and give up on this.
Guys have an different view to clubbing as opposed to girls.
Most guys go clubbing just to pick up / hook up. Most girls are
just there to have a great time. So, it very much boils down on HOW
are you feeling right now.
On a side note, how old are you and your boyfriend?
