Here's a view of things:
In Singapore, teens tend to start dating around 15 to 17 years
old. If a male teenager by the age of 18 doesnt' start to develope
feelings for the opposite sex, then probably he will never ever
start to develope any attraction to the opposite gender for the
rest of his life.
Studying is important but developing a logical mind is more
important. Without a mature logical mind, whatever the student is
studying is nonsense. Carrot and stick approach will only work on a
logical mindset, not one that is irrational and confused. The late
teens is the age when any life-long psychological problems will
develope in a male teenager.
If you haven't read everything, please read from page 1 and also
read his previous topic. Know whats hes like before you start
giving comments. If you still feel what you say is appropriate for
this guy then i have nothing to say.
I've seen much younger kids with a MUCH MORE mature mindset than
TS and hes not even bothering about this studies at all. All he
does is whine all day with no effort spent on trying to solve any
of the problems he raised.
Furthermore, why do you mention sexual attraction when thats not
the focus of this topic? Please read carefully