The only person who can look down on you in this world is
yourself. If you think yourself as a nerd, then you really are a
nerd, and deserve to be one because you allow yourself to act like
one.
Why let others decide and determine who you should be and be
labelled? Worse still to accept such labels and believe it to be
true?
You are a precious human being, born equal, with full capacity
to be who you want to be in life, to destroy or to create. Your
fate is in your own hands.
If you want to be a problem solver, study maths for it is not
just about remembering formulas, but the discipline and methodology
of using several different approaches to get an answer.
If you want to understand life, study the great classics of our
ancestors of different disciplines, both fiction and non-fiction
works, for it will shape up your mind to understand our complex
world better.
If you want to excel in sports, -ask, seek and find out how
sportspersons achieve excellence - their diet, their training
regimes, their mental discipline, their techniques.
All is within your grasp, if you are willing to GO find it.
Sitting around and moaning will get you nowhere. Life is never
easy, but in its difficulties lies its beauty, for the sense of
achievement when you find the solution to your problems and truimph
over difficulties that crippled others.
With your current mentality, you must be prepared that you will
lose your 400m run, because in your mind, you had already given
up.
With your current mentality, your 400m rely team had
already lost, because you believe other teams are better, yet
had done nothing to prepare you and your team to be better.
With your current mentality, you deserve to be alone, for your
idea of friendship is to be entertained by your friends who have
lives of their own, when you could have taken up on the ideals
of friendships to provide companionship instead, that will
entice others to you.
With your current mentality, you deserve to be a fashion
disaster, because you think you are one, when in our hot tropical
climate, loose fitting clothings are the most suitable and to
be yourself, so long as you are clean and tidy.
All is not lost, if you are prepared to re-tune your mentality
and be yourself, not determine by others, so long as what you do,
do not harm or hurt others.
As you are young, and may not be sure who you
want to be, then take on a role model, someone whom you
think is capable of inspiring you to achieve better in life.
Study his works and try to adopt his methods used to achieve
success.