Like everyone. i am not an really honest person.
i lie..
recently i attend a talk. feel rather good and wanted to share
with you people
and this is what it says.
4 reason why people
lie.
1. To Protect.
For example. You doesn't want your friends/family/spouse, to
know the truth. you doesn't want to make them feel the emotional
hurt, the stress that is there. be it health/money/career
2. To look Good.
Making up achivement, fabricate ability. so that
friends/family/spouse would look up to them, make them look up to
them.
3. To avoid Trouble
When there is a mistake. and you want to avoid the problem. you lie
just to blame shift to another party.
for example. you made spoil a door. but you said the door is
already spoild before you are even there.
4. Out of Compulsion
Someone who lie about everything.
Lie till you doesn't know he/her is speaking the truth.
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But isit always good to be honest?
NO!!! not!!!
you not going to tell a girlfriend/wife/boyfriend/husband and say
"I NEED SEX give it to me or i gona find some one else." right?
or "Your such a loser in life!"
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speaking in truth. how?
lets say "I NEED SEX give it to me or i gona find some one
else."
we say it in, "im so upset with you that you nv spent the night
with me last night. i love you, i want to spent more time with you.
honey, lets have more time together."
this not only say what you feel, and wad its honest.
unless your wife is a blonde. she might be saying "where to buy
time"
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Be honest! especially the one you love.!
to those in agony. this might be good for you. especially for
relationship
Woah...you loser, you want to admit you're dishonest but you need
to drag everyone else down together with you.
You are also a coward too if you don't dare to admit
you're dishonest by yourself without implicating others.
As usual, you still don't use your brain very well....
So according to your post, does that means that people should be
honest all the time? Since you have already generalised everyone as
dishonest as YOU.
You should know not everyone has extreme thoughts like you, MANY
people other than yourself....are CAPABLE of honesty and dishonesty
depending on the situations and scenarios.
OMG....I feel like I'm educating a little kid in childcare.
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