so should i have used the voucher?

last SG · 2009-04-01T20:10:18+00:00

Compromising, changing they are two different words with similar but totally different meanings. We shouldn't blame it on the guy, as see-ing things from he'...

LizV SG

today's my bf and my 2nd year anniversary...

we spent the day mostly in (went out for awhile in the morning, lunch, watched a dvd)...then he suddenly notices a new pair of canvas shoes on my floor. to cut it short, i bought the shoes ($23) using a voucher my friend gave me (he had no use for it) and now my bf is angry, reason being he said "do you need the shoes? you could have given the voucher to someone else...etc..."

i dont have many pairs of shoes (3 in total not including 2 pairs of slippers). should i have given the voucher away instead of using it myself? it kinda sucks because we're supposed to spend the day happily today.....sigh....

jayh272416 SG

ur bf is useless.

Agenda SG

ur bf is useless.

elindra SG

If I were you I would have told him to go F**k a spider

It's my voucher, why should he care how I use it

LizV SG

i just wanna hear different views from other people y'know...he's made it seem like i'm in the wrong now...plus i know he kinda likes girl's in casual canvas shoes, which is kind off one of the reasons i bought it

jayh272416 SG

since he doesnt want to cherish you, just leave lor.

stellazio SG

hes telling you, your shoes are too small for him le..time for him to go find a new pair..

MooKu SG

Did you have to spend any money on the shoes?

Are you receiving pocket money from your boyfriend?

How well off are the both of you?

zoragirl SG

its your voucher, why he bother....

or was it something that cause him to feel irritated...like the voucher is from a male friend (as you mention "he had no use for it")

LizV SG

MooKu: nope...the voucher covered it all. and i've never made him pay for me for anything (movies, meals, everything) because i believe that it isnt fair to make guys pay for things i want...we're both middle class...

LizV SG

zoragirl: nah...it's nothing to do with the guy i got it from...

MooKu SG

Tsk tsk tsk tsk tsk tsk tsk tsk tsk!

You want to hear different views? Here's my view: your voucher, your freedom to use it however you want.

But zoragirl has a point... maybe your boyfriend is feeling... annoyed that some other guy is treating you nicely.

zoragirl SG

zoragirl: nah...it's nothing to do with the guy i got it from...

then tell him F**k off

elindra SG

So if this is the case he has no business/right on getting mad on how you use the voucher since it's yours to begin with.

LizV SG

dont think so though MooKu...but it kinda s*cks cos we didn't even do like anything special today...like really go out and have fun, instead after he saw the shoes he just left my hse...

FireIce SG

why he so small gas....

elindra SG

then tell him F**k off

x2 or tell him go F**k a spider like I just said la

KNS not married like that liao

Married already you need to ask him permission to wear your shoes issit

MooKu SG

Maybe you should ask him why he reacted this way, instead of pondering over whether you should have used the voucher.

kopiosatu SG

*clap clap*

LizV SG

i know why he reacted tis way roughly, his perception of me is that i spend alot (which is true in the past) now i save a chunk of my allowance monthly, eat less etc if i want to buy something, and recently i've only been buying things that are on quite a huge discount, or like the voucher thing... he even has a problem with me buying drinks when i'm out because he said it's expensive, and when i said it's because i thirsty he replied "oh, i thought you just want to spend money." !!! i feel like i'm in the wrong all the time till i can't differentiate right or wrong anymore