in a real dillema with this relationship

`vonielewer SG

I am a guy too but cannot understand he didn't hug you after together for 5months?

He gay or what??? Or did you two just "play play" only?

he is not gay AGB2 [: we did hug , over the 5mothns . bt its less than 5 times .

i believe we are not play play be serious der

rlsh07 SG

i understand that matters of the heart this topic can be hard to bring up this topic. However i'm sure you would not let this continue right? if you are serious about this relationship, i suggest that don't let this drag on. imagine he is in your position and not talking to you abt it, you will feel like "why not just talk abt it in the first place right?"

i still believe that communication plays a part in your relationship. The first step is always hard to take. Once you get through that, you will find it easier to take the 2nd and third step. jia you ba.

Fugazzi SG

U want him to be closer to u, why bother who he relates to or what he does, u can be loving,u can be kind,u can be compassionate and most of allow him to be ( real love frees another) and if he is present to his being he will be present to urs and your presence, if he is not, how can he appreciate u, how can he see u: the bird of paradise only sits only on an open palm!

Enjoy, appreciate while he is in front of u, tomorrow, let it come as it comes, of course, it is on the premise of u being secure within, otherwise anxiety attacks lor

these are merely suggestions, u are u, and if it resonates with u - embrace otherwise lump it

Short Ninja SG

hmm . i dint think that he is a gay [: he is a perfect guy [:

So if he is not gay and you are not a man so wat is the real problemo?

Midlusionz SG

I dun see a problem at all, the problem lies with u.

MissZ SG

We are not qualified counsellors here, but at the very least you both should be committed to making this thing work. It takes 2 hands to clap.

'In love, communication is the most important. Go talk to him. Tell him u feel that he is treating you coldly and ask him why is it so. If he says you're too sensitive, then don't think about it anymore. Also let him know by telling him u love him alot. If he loves you too, he will definitely do it by action or words too. That way, without even trying, your relationship will improve.'

I think the above is decent advice. & respect yourself-if he's not willing to try, then you're better off without him.

`vonielewer SG

I dun see a problem at all, the problem lies with u.

you dont see a problem , cuz i bet you treats your gf the same way .problems does not lie with one person only . it lies on two person .it takes two hands to clap . if you are not here to help me . than i donn need any comment from you . thank you .

`vonielewer SG

We are not qualified counsellors here, but at the very least you both should be committed to making this thing work. It takes 2 hands to clap.

I think the above is decent advice. & respect yourself-if he's not willing to try, then you're better off without him.

thank you MissZ .

i've atucally communicate with him over this matter . and we agreed to work all the wrong things out together . hope things can be so much better in times to come .

anyway . thank you so much for your advice (:

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