I say if your mum still makes ur meal, do your laundry, worry
when you do badly and when you're sick, then she's just a
regular mother who loves you (and your family) and worry too
much.Most mothers usually have too much to do and a heavy sense of
responsibility for her childrens' and for her husband's well
being.
I do not know if your mother is just the normally 'ba dao'
mother (as in most families) or she does have a mental condition
(be it stress, depression or others). But in my own experience, my
mother was UNusually easily agitated bcos she had a mental
condition which lasted for 20+ years till her death (which also
deteriorated to the point of being incapacitated in that period).
Her condition of cos created certain changes to her personality and
limited her ability to be a mother and a wife.
Bcos I was still very young when she first got sick, I never
really did knew her well in her normal state and of cos being young
didn't understand what was wrong with her . In my teenage years, I
hated her, hated that she was sick and hated all the things that
happened bcos she was sick.
And even before she left us, I knew she would be a cross I
have to bear till my own death and I willingly carry this bcos I
could have been nicer, kinder, loved her more and I wish I had
understood then what I understood now. There are many things that I
shouldn't have done and even more things that I should have done,
but its too little too late. I think about her every day now and I
wish I thot about her more when she was still here.
All I can say to you and to everyone else is be nice to your
mother while you still can bcos for most of you, your mother really
do love you.