I found out that many people tend to put their relationship
partners before their friends no matter how close they are.
For Example, last minute calcellation of plans juz because gf/bf
wana meet up last minute AND "dunno la, see first, not sure meeting
gf/bf not.
I find it very irritating when its overly done. Like all the
time.
Just wondering weather its normal for all people to do this?
it's the matter of piority. i don't think it's wrong either
way.
if ur friend spends more time with you, the gf may feel upset
also. so if you ask me, it's a lose-lose situation.
i'd like to think it in a higher level.
because we live in an imperfect world, it's not possible to
satisfy everybody, and we are bound to offend some ppl, even if we
want very much not to offend anyone.
so i guess u felt neglected and that your relationship with your
friend wasn't being treasured. do bring it up to him lovingly. but
let him decide for himself, without any pressure from you, how to
improve the situation.
