Help Again Please =D

last SG · 2009-03-29T13:13:05+00:00

i think, a life is better for you to have try to forget her if cant get

Lma0 SG

Hiie Guys ~

i nid u guys to suggest something for me.

is it better to give up on a girl that still have not forget her ex??

cause.i feel kidda hurt.

when she said she haven forget her ex.

then..she even know i liked her.

i really dunno what to do..

should i continue to woo her?? or..give up?...

dkcx SG

How long have she broken up with her ex?

Do you really feel she is the right girl for you and you really want her badly or are you able to let go easily now?

Lma0 SG

i have a feeling.. that giving up now..is nt worth it.

last nov broken up.

recently she found out that her ex had lied to her.

she found out that he didnt had any gf at all.

then she was happy..

i felt..

heart broken?

parn SG

Hiie Guys ~

i nid u guys to suggest something for me.

is it better to give up on a girl that still have not forget her ex??

cause.i feel kidda hurt.

when she said she haven forget her ex.

then..she even know i liked her.

i really dunno what to do..

should i continue to woo her?? or..give up?...

We don't usually hurt the ones whom we loved.

So are you hurted? Do you think she like you now? Do you not doubt your relationship in the future even if you really managed to ask her to be your girlfriend?

I think you got your answer already.

Lma0 SG

im trying to avoid her now..

eeden. SG

avoiding doesnt help the matter.you can still be good friends with her even though you two cant be tgt.i faced the same situation like you and solved it that way.

Lma0 SG

But..i cant treat her as a friend...

hais...

dkcx SG

i have a feeling.. that giving up now..is nt worth it.

last nov broken up.

recently she found out that her ex had lied to her.

she found out that he didnt had any gf at all.

then she was happy..

i felt..

heart broken?

You can just keep in contact with her and see how things go for some time before deciding again whether or not you want to go ahead and woo her. If she can't really get over her ex then it would be hard for you to win her heart anyway. If after some time she still can't get over him, maybe you can consider finding another girl.

Lma0 SG

l0l..

this problem have given me quite a impact.

i promise with her 2 things..

1.dun cry.

2.dun cut myself.

i have broken the 1st promise...

is she angry??...

hais...im afraid.

im scared i dun have the guts to face her..

thehappybunny SG

how old are you

Lma0 SG

sec 4 this year.

shes sec 3 this year.

dkcx SG

How old are you...?

Personally if crying can make you relieve all the buildup emotions, i find it an ok way to vent it out but you need to pick yourself up after that.

Doing any physical harm to yourself is a totally stupid way to deal with any problems cos the only person you hurt will be yourself and those who really care about you but not the person who caused you to do it.

Did she know you cry? Pluck up some courage and face her cos regardless what, you cannot always run away or hide from her or anyone else.

dkcx SG

sec 4 this year.

shes sec 3 this year.

Sec 4... You taking your O or N levels this year. You shouldn't be doing this to yourself. I would suggest you concentrate on your studies first than get yourself involved in BGR since that seems to affect you badly

Lma0 SG

i told her..no.

but i guess..

my lie cant lie her.

im taking my n lvls.

im aiming for ite.

cause. i know i cant get up to sec 5.

even i get up to sec 5.

i dun wan to continue sec 5.

i cant concentrate on studies now...

this problem is keep on interfering...

even its not.i cant concentrate.

parn SG

Hiie Guys ~

i nid u guys to suggest something for me.

is it better to give up on a girl that still have not forget her ex??

cause.i feel kidda hurt.

when she said she haven forget her ex.

then..she even know i liked her.

i really dunno what to do..

should i continue to woo her?? or..give up?...

One question...what do you want most out of this relationship?

Is it SEX?

I think the girl got parents, friends, relatives, family to love her and she's also old enough to know how to take care of herself.

So is it SEX?

If it is SEX, then I cannot help you to become the ultimate sex predator.

dkcx SG

Until you try it, don't say no. Even if you feel you might not be up to it, at least try your best and not just give up on your studies.

You are still young and have a long future, don't just get yourself into shit over a girl.

As i've said, if you are unsure about her know, give both of you some time to think. Give both of you 1-2 months, talk about it again after you cleared your mid yr exams. If she still can't get over her ex then its time for you to give up as well.

zulkifli mahmood SG

Hello Lmao,

Hmm....

Lmao wrote:

"i have a feeling.. that giving up now..is nt worth it.

last nov broken up."

I think you just do nothing at this present moment until you are sure.

Lmao wrote:

"recently she found out that her ex had lied to her.she found out that he didnt had any gf at all.then she was happy.."

Lmao, think you are seeing this but from someone who see you and your girlfriend from the outside....I think she is not in love with you but with her ex-boyfriend still and she is still hoping for him to be her boyfriend.....see...what you see Lmao?

Lmao wrote:

"i felt..heart broken?"

I understand what you are feeling right now but you are not hurt if you are not in love with her but in this case you are but she is not....so what you do then.....ok, feel the hurt is deep and your heart is like torn apart with this knowledge that she is in love with her ex-boyfriend supposedly...so why must you be there for her Lmao...take that fact and move on with your life...you will find someone better ok.

Take care Lmao.

Joe

Lma0 SG

dkcx SG

The things you want from a gf can be furfilled by a good, close friend as well which could be of either genders. Sometimes gf's are not even the best persons to share negative things with.

If she can't get over her ex and patch up with him, that shows how much she cannot get over him and even if you try to woo her, i doubt it would do much to change her decision. For you however, it would hurt alot more cos u put in even more effort and yet still fail in the end.

Even if you 2 can't be boy girl friends, theres nothing stopping you from being beside her to support her as a friend and not always as a boyfriend. That might be better than totally lossing her.

parn SG

I don't think she want to be burdened with your pain and sorrow cos she has her own share of pain and sorrow.

Even for myself, I also don't like people who always come to me with their problems.

But I don't hate them...it's just very irritating sometimes....but once in a while is ok I think.