buy her a bed..
i actually have real advice for you but it's too late to do
anything anyway. just learn from your mistakes and move on. you
don't see James Bond clinging on to a girl ever. he even has a new
girl in every movie just to prove how awesome he is.
you notice how unmanly batman is by clinging on to the one girl
he cannot forget? that makes him look bad..
just think What Would James (Bond) Do? AND DO IT!!!!
batman unmanly meh?
actually. i also don't know how to be sweet etc.
some guys are just gifted at planning surprises, making gifts,
etc.. i'm not one of them