I met a thai girl whom i got to know from a escort website. I
booked her for 2 hours for sex. But instead of doing anything, we
actually just chat, massage each other's back and joke around for
the whole 2 hours. After that, we went for makan and i sent her
back to her work place at orchard towers. Then she sms me telling
me that i am a real gentlemen and feels good been with me and hope
we can be good friends.
The next day, i realised i can't stop thinking of her. I called
and chat with her ever since then. I even had foolish ideas of
finding her a decent job in singapore or some way to stop her from
working there. ( Of cos thats impossible i know ). And worst of all
i was her only customer for that whole week. As business is pretty
bad at orchard towers and she doesn't do business with those ang
mohs. i asked i could go down and visit her, but she refused saying
she only wants to see me outside and not in this kind of place.
Then i decided to invite her to my house for dinner. She
responded very happily and even went to shop for some decent
clothes so she can wear it to when she meets my family.
On that fateful friday the 13th, i brought her to my place,
intro her to my mum and had dinner. Then we went to my room and
chat , surf net. She was really very happy and we even discussed
about the next day program. Then my mum asked " Is she staying
overnight?" I told her maybe. Her face turned really black and said
"NO"
I was somewhat shocked and i suddenly felt everything is going
to go wrong. I begged my mum but she refused. I really dont know
wat to do.. cause i actually told the thai girl she could stay
over, and my parents will be ok with it ( I brought ex gf to my
place before to makan and overnight but my mum never make noise ).
I went back to my room, and asked her if she wanted to go clubbing.
She looked at me and asked whats wrong. I just told her the truth
that my parents dont like you to overnight here. After that the
thai girl said she's ok with it and that i can tell her the truth.
Then she continued serving net and suddenly broke into tears.
I was SHOCKED. She cried. I asked her whats wrong she refused to
tell me. Then my mum sms from the living room telling me to ask her
to leave. i really didnt know what to do, i felt like as though my
life is over. Then i asked her to dry up her face and we leave the
house now.
I brought her to hotel 81 and when we entered the room, she was
still crying. After she settled her crying, and a long persuading,
she finally told me. She told me she put a lot of hope in seeing my
family and she even spent money to buy decent dressing for me. She
even took a day off from work just for this day.
I apologised and kissed and hug her. She then said, hooker and
customer shouldnt have fall in love. I just told her that it's my
decision to love her. We chatted about each other's problem, about
my strict family and her finanical budern. She has to drink herself
drunk every night so she can sleep otherwise she cant sleep. Its
really sad. i really wished i can do something for her, and i
thought i could make her life happier on friday but it turned out
to be like this.
I send her home and gave her 100 bucks. I went home without
shedding a single tear throughout everything. The moment i lied
down on my bed, i simple broke down. I just couldnt stop crying. In
my heart i kept on cursing myself.Cursing myself why am i born in
such a strict family and when i didn't study well enough to have a
higher paying job. Then i thought of putting a stop to our
relationship. I called her told her that today will be the last
time we see each other again. She kept quiet for a minuite, and
told me she really dont wan me to leave her etc etc etc.
In the end i couldn't bear it, and i told her i will call her
again. I really am at loss. i really dont know what to do. To be
frank, i broke down several times typing till here. I hate my
parents and i hate myself. I really wished i can do something to
let her have a better life.
Your parents are cautious. And I don't think you can blame them
for having such fatuous 'superiority complex' against someone
originating from a country less developed as we are. Sad to say,
this stigma tantamounts to our arrogance when comparing ourselves
to the region yet marvel at people with financial or academic
achievements. This equates to hypocricy.
I personally think 1 week is far too short. Even though I think
she met countless men who're interested in nothing but sex with
her. You became someone not transactional when you behaved like a
refined gentleman compared to those she met. Take more time to know
her. Maybe you should consider asking her to quit her job and
become a 'housewife'. Please be considerate as her past
'experiences' does not qualify her for a decent job so quickly.
Do not be surprised that she actually yearns for a decent
family. People living in that regime can actually have such simple
requests in life. If you are really interested in her, you should
not yield to the hypocrital mentalities of feudal tradition.
Rather, work upwards for her.
I too, was in a similar predicament. But not as deep as you've
endeavoured. I met a prostitute in Filippines during a business
trip last year. She is nothing short of being absolutely stunning.
We hit it off really well and through our communications, I felt
really humbled by her flexibility to accept people of all creed and
race as friends. Having alternative preferences do not make them
less human. And I need a prostitute to teach me this simple moral
concept.
My customer explained to me that pretty girls in their late
teens in Manila QC without qualifications, without money, loads of
burden, need money fast and have no employment cannot afford to sit
and despair; prostitute themselves.
Even so, they have never given up the hope to be attached or
married.
I am not God. And I have no right to judge. Prostitutes can be
people who betray their physical bodies in exchange for money to
survive or bring up their family. I can be someone who lie in order
to get away from something I did. What makes me think I am more
superior just because I make a decent living?
