relationship problem-ex-bf

Angelababy SG

no more problem XD

Agenda SG

You angela baby leh, sure alot of suitors mah..

Angelababy SG

..just wanna c what people out there think...

alwaysdisturbed SG

break up already can still be friends even when he's with a friend of yours.

but, if you still can't face the facts, i think you should take some time off anything and everything from him.

you may not initiate anything but he may. then you got to decide if you want to reciprocate. if you don't, theres high chance that the friendship may slip away. still, let him know how you feel bah.

Angelababy SG

let him know?..its abit risky..what will be the improvement if i let him know?i dont think he will dump her and be with me again.sounds impossible..

Q.C.Pak SG

let him know?..its abit risky..what will be the improvement if i let him know?i dont think he will dump her and be with me again.sounds impossible..

No one can predict what can happen in the future. It's better to do it than to regret later, live life to the fullest.

alwaysdisturbed SG

let him know?..its abit risky..what will be the improvement if i let him know?i dont think he will dump her and be with me again.sounds impossible..

yea, no one can predict. just do whats necessary. no point hiding.

mancha SG

He having the best of two worlds. He is working on the new relationship. He hasn't written you off, just in case, that do not work, he has you to fall back on.

You have hope.

youyayu SG

if couple break up become friends

only 2 possibility

1. they never really love each other before

2. they still love each other

saw5 SG

i think u need some time off on your own.. just to protect yourself from getting hurt.. maybe u should stop contacting him for some time until u feel comfortable doing that again.. then both u still can be friends.. and if both of u are meant to be.. it'll happen

the Bear SG

the long and short of the story:

okay.. my take on this is that you are cooking up a recipe for disaster and a LOT of long term pain.. you are trying.. begging to give the pieces of your shattered heart to the one who smashed it... on your knees praying that he'll patch the pieces back together and keep it safe again... while he's poking the pieces with a stick just to give you some hope.. the way someone would poke something lying on the ground with stick out of curiosity..

you want your heart broken again, go ahead... keep at it.. feed your desperation..

i think you know the answer.. only you can make it.. not us..

i wish you well.. i wish you happiness...

dumbdumb! SG

sounds like he's playing with your feelings.

KrenByte SG

He having the best of two worlds. He is working on the new relationship. He hasn't written you off, just in case, that do not work, he has you to fall back on.

You have hope.

So she becomes his backup plan?

BadzMaro SG

Angelababy SG

the long and short of the story:

you want your heart broken again, go ahead... keep at it.. feed your desperation..

i think you know the answer.. only you can make it.. not us..

i wish you well.. i wish you happiness...

what u said is quite true..

storywolf SG

What the issue ? there is no issue from the start !!!

Ex-bf = relationship over - thus no relationship !!!

If no relationship - where got relationship problem anymore !!!

Angelababy SG

What the issue ? there is no issue from the start !!!

Ex-bf = relationship over - thus no relationship !!!

If no relationship - where got relationship problem anymore !!!

relationship is the connection between two persons.friendship is a relationship,family is another relationship,it doesnt just apply to bf and gf stuffs.i hope more ppl can reply n tell me what u all think..

tarXget SG

Ya lors.. i think u think too much. since break 3months liao and u already knw he got new gf. i think u will think of him bcoz u havent meet another guys u like bah, treat him as a hello say good bye friends.

brainerror SG

ahyo, i later come back and read.

XxYaNxX SG

i need help here.this is my situition:

i have broken up with my ex-bf for 3months.We were having LDR(long distance relationship) for about a year.But in the end when he came back,he told me he has got a new gf n wanted us to move on on our own.First 2 weeks i stopped contacting him at all,but then he texted me back and showed he still care for me.So i thought maybe we could be friends again.But i know i still do have feelings towards him.

He has gone back to australia to continue his studies.ps:his gf is having ldr with him as well,she is a friend of my friend.But i still couldn't ignore him even he is still with her.Sometimes really feel like just stop contacting him,but i just couldn't do it.We still contact each other quite often,just like the time we were still couple.He wont be coming back in more than a year time,that means i wont get to see him for a long time.Now my problem is,i dont wanna make this more complicated.I am not really happy staying in a relationship like this.if we r jut pure friend,then y is he contacting me so often.bt we are not couple too,he has a gf.and he doesnt seem like wanna give up on her.

what do u all think i should do?

should i just stop contacting him,ignore his calls n block him in msn.

or should i wait that maybe he will come back to me again.

or we should just remain to be friend like this.

can someone help me?

I wouldn't bother with him.