Her history is kinda complicated.
She is married at the age of 20 and claimed her hubby
(boyfriend) then purposely impregnanted her in order to get her to
marry him.After 4 years of marriage with 2 kids.He totally stopped
all kinda intimacy with her.His reason is he is too stressful but
she found out that he is watching porns from time to time but just
dont want to do with her.
During this time her body has changed alot weight from 43/45 kg
to 60kg and breast size from C to A/B very saggy.
Her dad commited suicided 4 years back and her husband dont care
n dont bothered.At the same time cut all her allowance which was
$300 and she decided to come out to work.Since then they stopped
talking to each other other then the 2 kids problem.
After working sometime she managed to reduced her weight to 47kg
and became very attractive.And for the past 2 years she has took up
smoking n clubbings.In that 2 years she had almost 10 diff
boyfriends and 1 of them got her impregnanted which she decided to
abort it cause that guy kinda wimps.
She has decided to divorce her husband many times but failed.But
this time round she is very determined to leave.And she decided to
leave becos of me........
Those short-lived
multifarious relationships that came along after the gradual
crumbling of her marriage is a sign of emotional instability and
blatantly a need to fill an emotional void. Some people who resort
to 'clubbing' to attract 'new mates'. However, that quality of guys
from there are pretty bad and those she ends up in a relationship
with probably deepened her karmic love cycle and unleashed greater
misery in a seemingly unbreakable chain.
I am assuming that you got to know her through the similar
medium as well. And I must warn you that if your relationship is
born out of a classic fling and after that, you then decide to
develop it into a relationship - be prepared for serious cognitive
dissonance.
Without deliberate conscious effort to steer away, all
relationship shall perish the same way it was born (Law of Mirror
Ending - CloUdiSm). This law corroborated with the logic that if
you want X, then you cannot seek to find X in Y because X is X and
Y is Y. Hence, you should seek to find X in X and not X in Y. The
process in the metamorphosis in evolving Y into X, although served
as a conscious effort to steer away, this decision often promise
much misery and disillusionment.
In simple, if I want to eat chicken rice, then I cannot make my
way to KFC and then request to order chicken rice. Although source
might be similar (chicken), but the primary products that KFC is
selling is entirely different from your individual expectation of
desiring to consume chicken rice.
Hence, if it born of a fling, it often dies of a fling.
***
Her complication in
love does not stem from the fact that she is helpless. In fact, she
had made many choices in life; just that these choices are
decisions that will almost set to plummet the condition of her love
life into some karmic crisis in the future (she is facing it after
four years marriage).
One must understand that 'having no choice' is a choice. Having
poor judgement is part of the reason for choice to be
undertaken.
Should you decide to pursue this relationship; unless you take
active steps to steer the relationship into a brighter path that
could ensure better longevity, if not, you will probably perish in
this RHC (R`ship of Higher Complication) because you are unable to
assist your woman in eradicating her own karmic love ties.
Cheers
