where to find new friends?

last SG · 2009-02-20T23:39:09+00:00

haha y u so shy... or u is another cancer? miss cancer?haha

Nikar 3 SG

as per title.

yes, i'm a loser but i'm trying to change. :-D

i got less than a handful of friends now and these are guai-guai types, stay-at-homes like me.....i want to meet new people and change my life.

people have said try going to clubs / bars, but that's really not my thing.

i read in books that to meet new people, can join interest groups but i don't really have any interest in things like football or hiking or fishing.

i used to be very super-shy and reserved, but now i've changed my personality a bit to be more playful and talkative.....only need to meet new people to complete my life.

pls advise. serious only.

burndog85 SG

Well are you good at chatting up people in bars/clubs? If you really dont mind, you should try going to church or those events where you get to meet people. Another thing could be myspace, I am pretty sure you can either find community groups on google (which is active) and you could probably start from there.

JerryYan SG

join a volunteer group to meet ppl

my bro found his wife while helping out in old aged home

Nikar 3 SG

thanks, but no....i really don't like the bar scene.

as for volunteer group like old aged home.......ha ha......i really hate those stuff leh...cleaning toilets etc.....ants everywhere....

also, no offense, but i think it's kinda hypocrite to volunteer for community services just to meet friends. :-D

join volunteer should have no strings attached.

NeverSayGoodBye SG

.....go to the library if you like reading,

.....join club activities in community centres,

.....go to concert (local/foriegn),

.....look around your neigbourhood,

sometimes friends are in your own backyard which you missed to see...

Cats&Dogs SG

by the way .. what's your age?

alwaysdisturbed SG

just be yourself la.

i also like you. don't worry one la, can survive de.

Vs SG

GHoST_18 SG

i can be ur friend for SG$500

Master -_- SG

join a volunteer group to meet ppl

my bro found his wife while helping out in old aged home

woah..ur bro must be in his sixties?

[J]erry SG

don't worry i also little friends in real life..

my those so called friends are just bastard...

so is not the quantity that count is a quality

Violetress SG

Go SDU.

u got any idol or not, if not can join their fans club wad

Nikar 3 SG

thanks guys......i'm 25 yrs old......ha ha......i know it's very old liao......at this age should have lots of friends enough to fill out a database on facebook or friendster.....but too bad lah....can only blame myself last time, when in sec 3, got betrayed again and again by very best friend until left a deep scar inside me.....after that, i just kinda shut myself out from others.....

i've been living like a loser in the shadows and it's only last year that i really started to wake up. now, i'm trying to be a normal guy again. :-)

and i don't have any idol lah......idol kind of thing is stupid.......i really can't image myself at changi airport T3 with 300 teenage girls screaming "JAY CHOU!!!!!!!" or "WU ZUN!!!!!!!!" *shivers*

antoh SG

hahah me too i find ppl going to airport to pick his idol a dumb act.

Violetress SG

wahaha err i tot u gal. u no interest no nutting how u expect urself to find frenz u tel me? koe from colleagues la. chill out w coll after work.

Nikar 3 SG

yeah, colleagues ok, but my company very small, so usually hang out with only 2 of them. :-D

now, where to find interest so that i can join some interest group?

possible to force myself to be interested in some hobby?

Violetress SG

im sorry to hear that u were betrayed :(

at least got some coll to add up to ur frenz list liao rite... ask ur colls to intro their frenz.. n their fren will intro u their frenz n so on.. endless liao ma.

force urself ah, mission impossible la...lidat u will suffer. haha.

make frenz with pple here. all of us like to surf the internet.

where to find interest? cannot be u hv no interest at all ma...reading..outdoor activity.any sports?

btw wads ur astrology?

gunner77 SG

how about having a game of football with strangers?

in my honest opinion i met quite alot of friends from football.

Nikar 3 SG

im sorry to hear that u were betrayed :(

at least got some coll to add up to ur frenz list liao rite... ask ur colls to intro their frenz.. n their fren will intro u their frenz n so on.. endless liao ma.

force urself ah, mission impossible la...lidat u will suffer. haha.

make frenz with pple here. all of us like to surf the internet.

where to find interest? cannot be u hv no interest at all ma...reading..outdoor activity.any sports?

btw wads ur astrology?

ha ha, yeah, but my colls all girls and have bfs already.

actually, we all get along very well and flirt etc., but there's always a thin boundary between girls and guys mah.......like when girls go out to do girly things, usually guys excluded. :-)

yeah, sgforumers are good, but then, no outing leh......even got outing, the outing also very specific, like makan outing, or football outing type.

as for interest, er.....it's video-gaming (very casual, not hardcore), and watching porn (main hobby lol......got porn outing?).

and i don't like sports either (btw, football really makes me sleep).

astrology is cancer. i think i fit cancer's personality quite well. ;-D

Violetress SG

ha ha, yeah, but my colls all girls and have bfs already.

actually, we all get along very well and flirt etc., but there's always a thin boundary between girls and guys mah.......like when girls go out to do girly things, usually guys excluded. :-)

yeah, sgforumers are good, but then, no outing leh......even got outing, the outing also very specific, like makan outing, or football outing type.

as for interest, er.....it's video-gaming (very casual, not hardcore), and watching porn (main hobby lol......got porn outing?).

and i don't like sports either (btw, football really makes me sleep).

astrology is cancer. i think i fit cancer's personality quite well. ;-D

haha hv u join sgfourmers outing b4? wa i didnt koe got outing one sia lol.

oh ur cancer.. they always say cancer mayb will like close to nature, homely stuffs, cooking etc... u like those meh? hahaha...

aiyo hobby watchin that one...well not only u la...haha. errr very hard to advice a cancer lor...coz from experience, pple tell u this one,u say cannot, giv u other advices..ALSO cannot. must u ownself say out den can de. u say video gaming...online games or wad?